I had a threesome with my papa (a male supporter) after suggesting that we invite my friend.

I think Megu’s answer already covered everything, but I can’t help adding my two cents. You probably went into this thinking it would be a fairly transactional relationship. But human feelings are strange, and even in a relationship like that, your heart can still get stirred up. Whatever you decide to do from here, this experience will likely serve as a reference for the future. As they say, sometimes the mummy hunter ends up becoming a mummy himself (does that fit?). Personally, I think it’s quite human—and rather endearing. By the way, last year I had a threesome with two women. We still keep in touch through a LINE group (lol). Probably not much help as a reference, though.

> I was shocked that he was willing to go that far just to have fun. Is this papa possibly trying to trade me in for someone else? Haha（笑） Well, that’s pretty normal with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)（笑） The way to stop it is simply not to show him anyone or let him meet anyone else. Still, it sounds like you’ll probably be able to continue seeing this papa, so why not keep things going? After meeting a few more times, I think his true preferences will become clearer. I imagine there are some male members who eventually stop looking, but I think they’re in the minority. P.S. Meg, it’s been a while. I’m glad to hear you’re doing well. I’m doing well too, but my six-year allowance-based relationship doesn’t seem to be ending anytime soon. I don’t need to look for anyone new, and with various changes in my circumstances, I left the dating club at the end of last year. When we first started seeing each other, there was an age gap of over 40 years, so I assumed she’d eventually turn me down. But she hasn’t gotten a boyfriend either, so this relationship has continued for a long time with no end in sight. Her living situation will be changing this spring, so I’m the one wondering, “Will she be okay?” But she’s still highly motivated, saying, “I’m not stopping anytime soon!”（笑）

I see, I see… So you regret introducing them, huh? It was a bit thoughtless, wasn’t it? And it must be sad that your friend has become your rival. Have you asked yourself where these feelings are coming from? - The shock you felt - Not wanting to have a threesome Maybe you realized that you liked your papa (a male supporter) more than you thought, or perhaps you’ve come to look down on him because he prefers your friend over you. If your papa switches to your friend, then that’s simply the kind of relationship it was. It’s not something you can control. If his allowance is generous and you don’t want to lose him, you may need to think about: - What strengths you have that can beat your friend - What you can do to make yourself needed I think you’ll need to come up with a strategy like that. Don’t cry—cheer up. Oh, and I think it’s fine to honestly tell your papa how shocked and upset you were! P.S. Date ◎ Yume, Thank you, as always, for thinking of me. Thanks to you, I’m now in my fifth year. When I was just starting out, I had so much fun and learned so much from the questions here, and I’m truly grateful. It’s wonderful to meet someone who wants to keep seeing you for a long time. I can’t see an end to my own arrangement either ♡

No one else can know whether she’s trying to move on to someone else—or perhaps even she doesn’t know herself. It would be a shame to turn him down now that you’ve become someone interesting to that papa (a male supporter), but if you feel it’s better to play it safe, then you should simply decline. I believe mature people are capable of making their own decisions.