I’m the PJ who asked for advice about my allowance. My papa has calmed down and is no longer angry. I realized that I’d left his messages about our plans unread while going out to eat with him and my friends, bundled my replies together because I couldn’t be bothered to respond, and talked about the guy I’m dating in front of my papa—all of which made him uncomfortable.
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Do PJs really have to reply immediately to their papa’s messages about plans?
👤Asked byGuest👩GenderFemale🎂20s👑Member of another dating club
It doesn’t have to be immediate, but I think it’s only natural to get a reply that evening—or at the latest, by the next morning.
People I’ve been seeing for several years sometimes reply even faster than I do.
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In my case, I don’t expect an immediate reply. Since we communicate every day, I’m fine as long as she gets back to me by the next day.
From my experience, she used to reply by the following day as promised when we first started seeing each other. Now she doesn’t necessarily respond right away, but it feels like she replies during breaks or whenever she has a little free time.
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If they’re someone important to you, you’ll reply instantly—within seconds.
As soon as you notice their message, you should respond right away…
The closer you become, the less you have to think or worry about what to say, so you should be able to reply in just a few seconds.
And if replying feels like a chore, I don’t think you need to meet that person at all.
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Why not look at it from the opposite perspective?
If the questioner’s boyfriend often ignored her LINE messages while hanging out with friends, and happily talked about his female friends, how would she feel? She’d be right to be angry.
If you want an allowance, I think it’s perfectly reasonable to reply to his LINE messages with about the same level of effort he gives you.
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