I happened to meet someone with a higher level of education. He was handsome and wonderful, so I enjoyed having lunch with him, but then he invited me to a hotel.
When I turned him down, he said, “Of course I have ulterior motives—I find you attractive. But I don’t see you as someone I could date or marry. Still, I’d like to keep seeing you.”
Basically, does that mean he thinks an uneducated woman is convenient?
Isn’t that unbelievably awful?
It’s hard to tell from just the message, but I get the impression he’s simply looking for a woman—whether she’s smart or not—for a friends-with-benefits arrangement.
It doesn’t seem like he’s only interested in unintelligent women.
You just misjudged him, so cut ties and look for someone else.
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That man is simply saying, “I want to meet you because I have ulterior motives. There’s no other meaning to it.” Your education and intelligence have nothing to do with it.
If he thought, “She seems dumb, so I’ll take advantage of her and hook up with her,” he wouldn’t be that straightforward about his feelings. In a sense, he’s even being honest.
By the way, I haven’t heard the word “handsome” in ages. It’s amazing that someone in their twenties even knows that word. I’m sure you’ll be heading out on the E-den tomorrow.
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