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Oct 17, 2023 02:51
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
From the woman’s perspective, aren’t you the one having an affair in the first place? lol
I’m sure she has someone else she really likes.
If she’s attractive and has a good personality enough to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), that is.
Other
A lot of money and non-sexual affection (but only from a handsome older man)
なーんちゃってファーマー
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Send a reverse offer to this responder
Other
I’m a male member—well, sort of a farmer, anyway.
Just as Mr. Tomioka from the staff said, I’d do everything I can to fulfill my favorite woman’s wishes—100%, or even 120% or 150%.
That’s physically impossible for me to begin with, so unfortunately, I don’t think the way you do, questioner.
Other
Tomioka from the Umeda branch here.
If you want her to stop seeing other men, honestly, the quickest solution is probably to give her as much support as she wants.
If you want her to quit, you also need to stop looking at other women yourself. If your attitude is, “I want to make offers to other women, but I want her to see only me,” then I think it’ll be difficult.
That said, ultimately, as long as you’re doing papa-katsu, the right answer is probably not to worry about her relationships with other men. Worrying about it will only cause you emotional distress.
Other
I think the key is to shower a woman who wants to be cherished by one papa with plenty of affection and financial support as her papa.
Trying that with someone who doesn’t want to feel tied down will only backfire.
You can’t really control who she dates, but if you can move up to being something like a boyfriend who gives her an allowance, there may be a chance.
In fact, I know several people in that kind of arrangement.
Marika
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Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
It’s best to have her tell you everything she’s doing.
If you support her in all of it, then it won’t be considered cheating anymore.
Support her work, who she meets and when, and even be happy for and supportive of the offers she receives.
That said, women from dating clubs will often say something like:
“Mr. ○○, if you could meet me ___ times a month, I’d want to be exclusive with you.”
(Though that wouldn’t work for me—I already have other women I like…)
If no one has ever said that to you, I suppose that means you’re not seen as the kind of man they’d want to be exclusive with.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m with Taro!
Nothing more to add. I don’t think you need to worry about it either.
Other
- Don’t worry about who your dating partner is intimate with.
- Pour all your love into her every time, thinking it might be the last.
That alone is enough.
You should seriously try dating an active adult film actress at least once. Vivid footage of her being intimate with men other than you will be released a few months later. At first, you’ll try your best to catch up, but before long, you’ll surpass it—and enter a world where the adult videos are the ones chasing after you. There’s no need to explain why that happens. Once you’ve experienced it, you’ll understand how small your own perspective was, what your place is now, and how you should treat her for her sake. The only difference is that, because she’s an adult film actress, footage of her with other men gets released. I think it’s basically the same with women who aren’t.
Do your best(^^)
Taro