I always end up being used

Question

I often meet men with a certain level of social status—for example, those earning ¥10 million a year or whose names come up in online searches. At first, they tell me they like my looks, and I think we might become close, but then they leave me on read on LINE or the relationship naturally fades away. This happens very often. My parents and others tell me that they leave me on read because they only wanted something physical, and that they only contact me when they feel like it. I’m also feeling rushed because I want to find a boyfriend by Christmas. By the way, the man who has been leaving me on read said things during our date like, “I’m already in my late twenties, so I want to get married,” “I’d be willing to live with you, ○○,” and “I want to eat your cooking.” What do you think? Was he just looking to have some fun? (I turned down anything physical.)

Answer 1

Why not lower your standards a little? Someone like me, with no particular social status and no chance of ever appearing—or having appeared—on TV. I’d recommend finding a man who, even through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), would be willing to have an adult relationship (intimate) with just one woman, meeting her regularly every month for about five years on a fixed allowance. As for finding a marriage partner, I think there’s no need to rush. Just cast a wide net and watch the men who pass by.

Answer 2

Thank you for your question. Maezawa here—I’ll answer as well. > What do you think? I think it means exactly what was said.

Answer 3

My take is that he’s probably all talk. If he really likes you, he’d introduce you to people or places that could benefit you and support your studies or work. Pay attention to his actions, not his words. It’s me

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