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Sep 27, 2023 11:40
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I don’t think you should aim to have him all to yourself from the start.
It may take a little time, but as you continue seeing each other, things will naturally develop that way, so there’s no need to worry. Just keep seeing him quietly for two or three years.
Regardless of the allowance, the key is to remain someone he wants to see again.
Good luck.
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Age: 60s
👨 Male
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To begin with, even though the offer fee for Premium Black is high, doesn’t that necessarily mean the allowance will be high too?
In my limited experience, aside from Princess Nana, the highest allowance I was ever asked for came from a Gold member.
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Age: 50s
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It depends on your value.
If there’s no benefit for her in seeing you, even offering 100 might not be enough. But if seeing you is worth more than 100 to her financially, she may accept your price depending on how you make the offer.
Even if a woman’s usual allowance is 5, that doesn’t mean she meets just anyone for 5. Plenty of women adjust it depending on the papa—5 for one papa, 100 for another. That’s reality.
If the amount matters that much to you, you’re better off giving up on the idea of having her all to yourself. It’s common knowledge in business that the price jumps the moment it becomes an exclusive contract. The moment you say that to a woman, she’ll see you as an easy mark.
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Age: Private
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On the other hand, I don’t think it’ll work unless the woman sees you as someone she wants to have all to herself…
Otherwise,
she wouldn’t want to be exclusive with you.
I also think she’d dislike the idea of thinking in terms of “how much money is needed.”
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Age: 60s
👨 Male
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Get close to her, find out what she’s really earning each month, and offer her twice that amount, I suppose.
On top of that, provide her with an apartment of her own. Buying one for her would create all sorts of problems, like gift taxes, so it would probably be better to keep it in the man’s name.
The key point is her relationship with her family. If she’s practically estranged from them and has no one else to rely on, I think things would be easier to arrange.
If she ever wants children, she’d be free to have them—and in that case, perhaps pay her 100 million yen for each child she gives birth to.
I think that would probably be enough to buy a woman’s heart.
P.S.
This reminded me of a Russian saying:
“Happiness can’t be bought with money. It takes a lot of money.”
Other
A man I know is currently working toward having her all to himself, and he’s offering even more as well.
He’s also a genuinely wonderful person, very considerate and attentive toward women, with excellent manners and hospitality. And he’s quite young, too.
As Kazu-san said, money alone can’t keep someone tied to you.
Marika
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
Aside from the less-common Black tier, even in Platinum, the flood of offers will eventually settle down after you first register.
There are plenty of women whose profiles list a monthly target of around ¥100,000 to ¥300,000. If you target someone like that, wouldn’t you be able to get by without spending this much?
Age: Private
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It really depends on the woman, so I don’t think you can make a blanket statement.
There are probably women who would think it’s fine to have a boyfriend or another papa as long as they don’t get caught, even if they’re receiving 1 million yen a month.
Personally, if you’re going to interfere in someone else’s life to the point of telling her not to have a boyfriend, then regardless of her background or status, I’d say 1 million yen a month is one digit too low.
As you probably know, money can only buy someone’s feelings for a short time. She might do as you say for the first few months for 1 million yen a month, but I think she’d get used to it after a while.