I’m a man in my mid-50s who works in the HR department of a major electronics manufacturer. I’m a licensed clinical psychologist, and I counsel employees once a week as an industrial counselor.

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We’re all human, so no one can be cheerful and full of energy all the time. Depending on our physical condition and the stress we’re dealing with, there are times when we feel down. Many people also struggle with mental health issues. I don’t believe anyone is perfect, myself included. I’ve heard that Universe brings together only gentlemanly, top-tier male members. However, some people may find the answers in this question box harsh and feel as though they’re being blamed, don’t you think? Of course, there are also answers that are very kind, considerate, and carefully worded. I imagine it must be difficult for the respondents as well, with so many different questions coming from so many people. There may be times when they have to say something harsh, but even then, I feel they should avoid answers that excessively blame or否定 the person asking. Are the respondents perfect as human beings? Are their girlfriends beautiful and attractive, both in mind and body?

Answer 1

Exactly. Some people use language that’s just plain rude, even if it is anonymous. I got an answer like that to one of my questions too, so I tried reading that person’s blog—and it was exactly what I expected. He was basically this gross, self-absorbed old guy who’s only popular because of his money, yet doesn’t realize it. I’m sure he’s surrounded by nothing but yes-men, and at this point he’s probably beyond saving. If you work in HR, you must see lots of people like that in organizations, right? lol

Answer 2

True, there are quite a lot of prickly answers. But they say every beautiful rose has thorns, so I suppose it can’t be helped. When it comes to seafood, I’d say sea urchin. The tastiest things come with thorns. And with the season coming up, I’m looking forward to chestnuts too. Besides, the prickliness isn’t anything new, so I get the feeling that people asking questions are diving into the rose garden knowing exactly what they’re getting into. After reading the answers, maybe a nice meal of sea urchin and chestnut rice, finished off with a rose-flavored dessert, would cheer them up. I could be wrong, though. One more question: chestnut blossoms smell a bit like semen, but the “chestnut” is something women have, not men. How does that work? Taro P.S. Seeing Shirousa’s straightforward answers made me realize I may have become a bit jaded myself. I’ll reflect on that（笑）

Answer 3

> Are you perfect as a human being? Unlike in prehistoric times, even something as simple as a smartphone is perfect. This is a groundbreaking, wonderful age filled with perfection. I don’t think there’s anyone imperfect in the world today. > Is your girlfriend beautiful and attractive, both inside and out? Everything about her is attractive. If you’re living in the present day, wouldn’t you say you’re living in an age overflowing with happiness and lacking nothing? > Answering itself must be very demanding. Since I’m not paid, I enjoy it as a little break during work—like taking a casual cigarette break. Because it’s unpaid and not a job, I can answer quickly and casually, and I think I can also give answers that people around the questioner—who don’t necessarily agree with them—can’t provide.

Answer 4

I’m Shiro Usagi, a new answerer. In the closed-off world of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), it’s natural to feel anxious or have questions when you don’t have friends or connections to rely on. You may not have anyone to consult, but here, someone will answer even the smallest question. I think it’s a wonderful system. When I first started on Uniba, I read past questions and asked questions here while trying to figure out how to make things work. I’m still new, but I became an answerer hoping I could support questioners, even in some small way. Every now and then, people post completely off-base questions or simply share their feelings, but I make sure to read those carefully and respond with patience. I know it may be presumptuous, but I hope that my answers—even when they include criticism—can help questioners feel at least a little reassured or satisfied. I try to answer with the questioner’s feelings in mind, so I look forward to your continued support.

Answer 5

As I said before, I understand that neither I nor the person I’m seeing is perfect, and I don’t expect perfection from others either. I think it’s dishonest to twist this into “you’re demanding perfection” and use that exaggeration to disparage someone else’s answer. Posts seeking validation aren’t questions; they’re just fishing for compliments. A counselor’s job may sometimes involve showering people with affirmation and approval, but this is a Q&A site. I believe it’s a place to ask questions when you want answers. The person I’m seeing is beautiful and attractive, both inside and out. That’s why I’m in a relationship with her.

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