In terms of how the time is divided, I may be the opposite of Taro. As we get more comfortable with each other, we spend increasingly more time eating out, going places, and doing things outside the hotel.
For a second meeting that includes both a meal and the hotel, I’d say around 3–6 hours, or half a day at most.
When we go out, we spend about 2–3 to 6–7 hours eating and sightseeing, with 1–3.4 hours at the hotel either before or afterward. If we have exceptional chemistry, the hotel portion can sometimes be as short as 40 minutes to an hour—this is rare, though, and only happens with favorites. When the hotel portion lasts longer with a favorite, it’s usually because we sleep for another 1–2 hours afterward, or give each other massages before or after the adult relationship.
The chances of deciding to stay overnight after meeting that same day are very low, so it almost never happens on a second meeting.
A tense summer, a Japanese summer…
Normally, you don’t have sex at a hotel for the first time and then stay overnight. Time-wise, it’s usually about two hours for dinner and two hours at the hotel, right?
As for the hotel, if things aren’t going well, you tend to wrap things up quickly, so it ends up being shorter—around an hour and a half, or even just an hour in some cases. It’s never really longer. Even if you hit it off and things continue for a long time, the first time is two hours at most. It gets longer after you’ve met a few times.
Dinner, on the other hand, tends to get shorter. The first time is usually a full two hours. Once you’re more comfortable with each other, if you know that a B-type woman gets nervous on the first day, dragging dinner out will only make things awkward, so you may finish up early. Once you become closer, dinner often lasts just over an hour. The date before dinner or the time at the hotel tends to become longer.
That’s just my personal experience, and these things probably vary from man to man, so it’s also important that your expectations match those of your partner. I think it’s important to have the skill to adjust when there’s a major difference in expectations—or to turn them down or walk away.
Taro
