I’d like to know how to tell which women are willing to have unprotected sex.

If you stare intently at a woman’s profile, you’ll start to see the character “生” on her forehead. Give it a try. It’s where Kinnikuman has the “肉” symbol. If you can’t see it, you simply haven’t trained hard enough. Just kidding lol.

It’s not about the woman—it depends on you. If there’s a trusting relationship, no woman will refuse. Also, whether you actually go without protection is a separate matter. At a club, you should be able to find someone you’re compatible with enough that it isn’t necessary, and you need to satisfy her that much, too.

Why worry about telling them apart? Wouldn’t it be best to simply ask how she feels about unprotected sex during your first dinner together? There are many women out there, so I’m sure some may not be particularly opposed to it. That said, even if she’s okay with unprotected sex, she may have her own terms regarding the allowance, STI testing, or waiting until you’ve seen each other a few times and built up some trust. If you listen carefully and act like a gentleman, I suspect it may be possible with some women. I often hear about underhanded cases where a man suddenly tries to have sex without saying anything beforehand, or claims after arriving at the hotel that he doesn’t have a condom. It’s because they try to be sneaky that women get angry.

What’s truly astonishing is the mindset of someone turning 50, believing they can tell the difference—though perhaps they can—and still asking a question despite knowing they’ll be subjected to a barrage of criticism. At a Shinbashi red-lantern pub, this would be the kind of thing that gets you mocked over Black Hoppy: “Old man, what kind of education did you get?” As a fellow man, I understand wanting things to be raw (though I can’t understand even a little why you’d want to know how to tell the difference). Some women on Uchu Club may be willing to accommodate that. However, having multiple unspecified partners is not unusual here, so if you contract an STI, there are only limited ways to take responsibility—you may be able to contact the women you’re seeing, but normally you wouldn’t be able to contact the other men involved. So unfortunately, going raw is not an option. Confucius said that at 50, one comes to understand one’s destiny. If you can’t find the partner you’re looking for, questioner, perhaps that is your destiny. Nothing good comes from defying Confucius.

They’re probably the type to buy an information product called “How to Tell Which Women Will Have Unprotected Sex with You.” The idea of beating people like this to a pulp belongs to the early Heisei era. These days, maybe the right move is to see even people like them as a business opportunity and act accordingly. Where there’s desire, there’s a hidden gold mine. Universe Club might as well create and sell information products too.

Try asking girls you wouldn’t mind losing touch with—you’ve got nothing to lose. Some may ask for extra, but about one in four agrees.

I’ll probably get torn apart by the other people answering this, but… lol. As for signs that things may naturally progress that way, for example, when a woman who’s been between my legs giving me oral sex finishes and then moves both legs, one after the other, to the outside of mine, straddling me like she’s riding me. It would naturally lead to a woman-on-top position, and otherwise there’d be no reason for her to take that position. Since it was our first time, I didn’t react and she noticed, then shifted into a side position instead. Looking back, it may actually have been a pretty sophisticated exchange. When the woman is in the lower position, I guess one sign is that she keeps hugging you the whole time. She’d have to sit up to put it on, but if she doesn’t let you do that… You might think, “Is this really okay?” and proceed step by step while watching her reaction. Even after you move your body between her legs, she keeps hugging you; even when you bring it to the entrance, she still seems fine. You check over several steps, and if everything seems okay, you try going in. Then, if she starts moaning normally, you figure she was okay with it after all. Something like that. You can also ask her directly, but some women feel disgusted just by being asked, so you’d probably only get one chance. I’ve tried asking lightly a few times, making it easy for her to say no if she wasn’t interested. But afterward, I suddenly got a LINE message saying, “I’ll agree just this once if you add 40,000 yen to cover a post-encounter STI test and an emergency contraceptive prescription. What do you think?” I declined—not because of the amount, but because I thought, “Do we really have to go that far?” Then she completely blew up at me, saying, “You kept asking, so I thought hard and made you an offer, and now you’re turning me down?” Differences in how people feel about the situation are common, but once you hand over an allowance, it creates a kind of pressure resembling a superior-subordinate relationship. So you have to be even more considerate than you would with a man and woman who simply met normally—or rather, there seem to be situations that can’t be resolved through consideration alone. In that sense, I think the better approach is not to get a woman to say yes, but to identify women who are already comfortable saying yes. I’ll probably get torn apart for saying that, though lol. Taro