I’m Shiro Usagi, one of the newer answerers.
This is just my personal take, so please keep that in mind.
- Is your dating type C or D?
If it’s A or B, you’ll receive fewer offers.
- Have you edited your private photos?
Natural photos are fine, but overly processed, unrealistic app edits or flashy “living my best life” shots by a villa pool can be off-putting.
- Have you had a video taken?
The way you speak and your overall vibe matter.
- Do you send messages saying, “You’re lovely”?
Some men also post their profiles and photos. Be proactive and appeal to them by sending messages.
- Are you registered on PATOLO?
Since you can chat there, try messaging men who catch your interest.
- Is your occupation listed as “unemployed”?
Freelancers and unemployed women tend to be avoided. Even if you only work part-time, list your current job. If you’re unemployed, write, “I’m currently taking time off work (and looking for a job).”
Good luck!
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You got one offer, so that’s still a good thing, isn’t it?
Since the new dating categories were introduced, I feel that women listed as B1 receive considerably fewer offers than those listed as B2.
That’s just my impression from making inquiries.
Aside from looks, which dating category you’ve chosen probably makes a big difference too.
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If you really want to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), it looks like your only option is to accept reality and take steps accordingly.
You could register with another dating club, sign up for an online papa-katsu site, or meet people through a dating app for papa-katsu.
You can find instructions online with a quick search. Good luck.
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There are a lot of women in their 20s, after all. Among them, if you don’t have something that stands out—your looks, figure, or profile (your occupation, an interesting comment, etc.)—you’ll probably get overlooked.
Then there’s your type, like A or B… Lying about that will only lead to trouble, so I’d suggest writing a profile that highlights something appealing while being honest about your current relationship type.
Even a few offers are better than none, so do your best to keep going. When you receive your next offer, try to think about what the other person is looking for.
Marika
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If you’re thinking “as expected,” then maybe that’s the case（笑）
But if even one offer turns out to be from a good person and leads to a long-term arrangement, you’ve already won. Treasure every encounter.
Taro
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