Which dating club should I interview with?

If you can trust what that Papa-katsu University says, then why not simply interview at one of the clubs they describe as having a good clientele? And even if someone writes in the Q&A box that Universe Club is wonderful, can you really trust that person? Exactly—what does it even mean to say that the clientele is “bad”? There’s no point in just worrying about it, so taking the plunge and giving it a try could be one option.

I think it’s simply that Universe Club is an uncomfortable place for people who treat their dating partners like customers. From what I’ve seen of female members at other clubs, including women who belong to multiple clubs, most other clubs set the woman’s allowance in advance and assume an adult relationship once they meet. As a result, many of the women gave off a strong sense of individual prostitution. With that mindset, they see their dating partners as customers. For people like that, Universe Club may not be a good fit, since it requires the terms to be discussed and decided after meeting, which can feel like a hassle.

Generally speaking, whether the clientele is good or bad depends on the establishment. In papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), the women can likewise influence whether the men turn out well or badly. Conversely, whether a woman becomes more attractive can also depend on the man. I’ve been seeing my favorite club companion for four and a half years now, and we’ve met nearly a thousand times. If we’ve continued meeting that often, I think it means there are very few things either of us finds dissatisfying. I’m sure there are plenty of other genuinely good encounters and relationships like that as well. In the end, I think things can change depending on luck and the people involved. Adding this after reading that, at Kaz’s other clubs, the allowance amount is apparently fixed: With someone you meet hundreds—or even a thousand—times, the relationship doesn’t necessarily end when the papa-katsu relationship does. It goes beyond simply remembering where you met. When we moved toward an adult relationship (intimate), there was no discussion about the allowance; things simply progressed naturally. I think our trust has continued to deepen, and we’ve become an indispensable part of each other’s lives—unable to be completely separated. I think the terms of the arrangement can be either beneficial or restrictive.