Follow-up to my question about men who try to make you eat a lot
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Thank you for your answers.
I agree that on a first meeting, neither person knows how much the other usually eats, so even if there’s a lot of food, I try to finish my own portion whenever possible. It’s only natural not to know how much someone eats when you’re meeting them for the first time, so I don’t really mind that.
What I find strange, however, is that even with men I’ve already met more than five times—despite repeatedly making it very clear that I’m not a big eater—many of them order huge amounts of food, make me eat what they leave behind, and then get angry when I say I can’t eat any more.
After thinking about it, I came up with these possibilities:
- They want to show off by ordering lots of expensive dishes that they normally couldn’t order for a server or another woman, and then be fawned over. When they don’t get the reaction they expected, they become irritated.
- Just as men lose interest during an adult relationship (intimate) if you don’t pretend to enjoy something that doesn’t actually feel good, maybe it’s the same situation. If they keep focusing on something you don’t want during an adult relationship (intimate), you can avoid it by saying, “This feels better for me!” So perhaps with food, it would be more effective to distract them by saying things like, “Looking at you makes me so happy that I’m too full emotionally to eat anymore.”
Am I on the right track?
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Aren’t you seeing each other just for dinner?
If you’re considering an adult relationship (intimate) afterward, I’d be careful not to drink or eat too much as the man.
Otherwise, I might not be able to perform, lol.
On a recent date, the woman ate too much and said that her stomach felt uncomfortable during intimacy, whether she was on top or underneath. It made me realize that I shouldn’t encourage her to overeat.
Why not tell him that you felt sick and uncomfortable because your stomach was too full when you had an adult relationship (intimate)?
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I can understand there being one idiot like that, but are there really several of them? The richer someone is, the more humble they should be—it’s appalling.
If that’s really how it is, then I guess you’ll just have to put up with it if the money is good. But if the allowance is low, you could try telling him once, “I’m too full and uncomfortable, so I’ll have to decline the date.”
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As men get older, they tend to eat less. If they’ve always cared more about quality than quantity, they can tell the difference in quality.
A papa (a male supporter) who orders lots of expensive food that isn’t even particularly good simply can’t appreciate quality—whether it’s food or an adult relationship (intimate)—and doesn’t know how to consider his partner.
If he’s still ordering so much that the two of you can’t finish it at his age, he was probably a big eater in the past and always put quantity before quality.
People like that can also be quite intimidating, and because those around them are used to accommodating them, many of them never learn to consider what the other person wants. I think that’s why everything they do—including meals and adult relationships—is so forceful.
In short, you haven’t been taken to a restaurant where you can genuinely be moved by how delicious the food is.
That papa lacks confidence too. He doesn’t know how to impress his partner—whether through food or an adult relationship (intimate). In both cases, it’s the quality that matters… that’s the key.
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