I was diagnosed with cervical cancer and have to undergo a hysterectomy.

Have you ever seen a diagram of the uterus? I assume your gynecologist showed you one. If you think about where the penis actually goes and where it could reach with deep penetration, the answer becomes obvious. ① If you don’t have a uterus, does that mean a man can’t enjoy sex? The penis does not enter the uterus, so you should still be able to have sex normally. If you want your partner to feel that much pleasure, why not have vaginal ridges created through cosmetic surgery? Does the person asking this work in the sex industry? If it’s just a normal relationship or papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I don’t think you need to worry. More importantly, please have the surgery soon and get the lesion removed. If the cancer cells enter the lymphatic system, they can spread quickly. If it were me, I’d be more concerned about surviving than about sex.

The vagina remains, so physically, men can still enjoy sex normally. For women, it may feel somewhat less satisfying because they no longer feel penetration against the uterus. (The G-spot remains, but the cervix is gone.) You may start defining your identity as a woman by the fact that you can still have sex, and in that sense, you might become more attached to sex.