Tips Jun 28, 2023 01:42

My papa (a male supporter) developed feelings for me, and we agreed to meet twice a month:

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once for a date and once at a love hotel. The monthly allowance is ¥70,000. But he sends me multiple messages every day and expects me to report what I did that day. If I don’t reply, he bombards me with messages or gets moody. He pries into all kinds of things, including my private life, and gets angry if I don’t answer every question—even though there are things I don’t want to talk about, right? He also hangs around near my home, and his possessiveness, jealousy, and acting like my boyfriend are getting out of hand. He sulks easily and starts making unreasonable demands. It’s really frustrating dealing with this every day. I agreed to meet him twice a month, but I never expected that I’d also have to respond to his messages every day, put up with him prying into my private life and controlling me, and deal with him getting angry or sulking every day. The emotional strain and stress are overwhelming, and I don’t feel ¥70,000 a month is worth it. What do you think?
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
If that’s how you feel, then break up. If you found two new pay-per-meeting papas, you’d probably make more in allowances than that amount, right?
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だて◎ゆめ
👨 Male Universe member
There’s no point in staying in a relationship that isn’t enjoyable. It’s better to think of the allowance as something that comes afterward.
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
If you feel you’re being asked to do something that isn’t worth it, I think the only option is to end things. I can’t think of any other choice. The amount of the allowance is irrelevant.
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
For now, try telling him you’d like to receive two years’ worth of allowance upfront. From his behavior, he clearly isn’t showing you any affection at all, so you should end things soon with a papa who only harasses you and never makes you feel at ease.
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