I assume you’re referring to what’s written in the men’s profiles.
I think it’s best not to look at that section—or simply ignore it.
Men write whatever they want based on their own interpretations, and then approach you with terms that differ from what they wrote there.
That doesn’t mean it gets treated as “dating-type fraud,” nor will the club warn them just because their actual intentions were different.
So it’s better to ignore that section. If you trust it too much, you may regret it.
Men are wolves, so be careful.
Even if they wear a sheep’s face, there’s a wolf inside baring its fangs—that’s just how they are.
Don’t ever carelessly believe that this one man, at least, is safe. No, no, no, no, no.
I think your understanding is generally correct.
In my view, the dating type represents a man’s basic approach to relationships through a dating club. When I made an offer, I had the club tell her, “Please read my profile carefully and decide whether or not to accept the offer.” However, every woman I actually met seemed not to have read it very thoroughly.
I’m sure there were also issues on my end as the person making the offer, including how I wrote my profile. Still, I’d like women to read it carefully, as you did, and come to the first date with that understanding.
Profiles and comments are information that both the person making and the person accepting an offer put out with some intention. There are certainly many things you can’t know until you meet in person, but I think it’s best to make effective use of the information available.
That’s the one in the men’s profiles, right? I figured that’s probably how it looks from a woman’s perspective.
Basically, men don’t have a “relationship type”—only women do. And it’s probably not the case that men only make offers to women with certain relationship types. In my case, I make offers to all kinds of women, from A to D, because I choose based on other factors rather than their relationship type. I only check that after I decide I like their profile. Sometimes I see A or B1 and give up, while other times I think, “Well, I’ll give it a shot,” and make an offer. Of course, I understand that with an A or B, nothing will happen on the first day, and when it’s B1, I make the offer assuming there may not be anything intimate even on the second or third meeting.
When making an offer, you click the offer button at the top of the woman’s page, but the only things it asks about are the date and location. The item you’re referring to is part of my own profile, so I have to go into the profile editing screen to change it. At first, I used to update my profile after making an offer, but it gradually became too much of a hassle, so lately I’ve just been leaving it as is.
So I don’t think you need to worry about it too much. That said, it might be different if you sense a specific intention from the rest of the profile as well（笑）
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