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May 29, 2023 22:41
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As Taro-san said, why don’t you just go to a soapland?
If you can only see women as holes, go to a sex-work establishment. What exactly are you misunderstanding?
Though, if you’re willing to spend around ¥1 million a month, I’m sure there are women—and men—who would be willing to do that, since they probably wouldn’t want anything more.
You should understand that going without protection comes with that much risk.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’ve never seen any appeal in going without protection, so I’ve never asked for it.
Besides, most women don’t want to do that with some older guy they aren’t even attracted to.
For women, it’s nothing but a risk factor.
So if a woman is willing to let you go without protection, I think she must be in serious financial trouble.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
To put it bluntly, it depends on the woman in question—but not only on her.
Men who are okay with it may be okay with anyone, while men who aren’t may refuse with anyone. That could be part of it too.
A common scenario is that, after going to a hotel, things naturally move to the bed. The woman gets on top, things heat up, and she can’t hold back, leading to unprotected penetration. After that, they change positions and put on a condom right away. In that situation, continuing without protection would be possible.
Even from the first meeting, if the chemistry is strong and the woman reacts sensitively and things heat up, it can sometimes go that way. If the chemistry isn’t there, of course, that kind of mood never develops.
There was also one case involving a woman who was very experienced with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). She had opened a condom and hidden it nearby so it could be put on immediately. But when we were about to use it, the condom was gone. While I was showering, she had checked it, mistaken it for one left behind by a previous user, and thrown it away.
With women experienced in papa-katsu, unprotected sex is usually not an option. Some even carry their own condoms—though not just any ordinary ones.
Other
The silent pressure of political correctness is so annoying that I feel like smashing through it—one wild night at fifteen. I’m going to give you the blunt, unfiltered facts.
Not just the person asking, but everyone who’s merely reading this really wants to hear this kind of story, right? (Laughs)
To be frank, in my case, just under 20% of the women I’ve had an adult relationship (intimate) with went that far. When I was younger, it was around 25%, but recently it’s been in the mid-teens—and most of those women were in long-term relationships with me. I think my success rate was higher when I was younger simply because I was young. In other words, I was more attractive to women, and I was also much more pushy.
Even when I ask, about half of them refuse, saying, “Absolutely not.” I’ve even been lectured about it. (Laughs) Sometimes they agree after turning me down several times. On the other hand, honestly, there have also been times when things just went that way without any conversation. About half of the times it happened without protection were like that. Of course, in my case, I’ve never had a complaint afterward. Looking back, in almost every case, it seemed the woman had already thought, “With this person, it’s okay.” I think being able to read the situation—almost like communicating without words—is extremely important.
If you’re in your sixties, I think it’s better to bring it up only after you’ve built a proper long-term relationship. There are certainly women who will go without protection with just about anyone on impulse, but they’re pretty rare. You might have better odds at a sex-service establishment. In fact, if you absolutely want that, you’d be better off going to a soapland that allows it rather than trying your luck at a dating club.
Taro
🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
Come on, senpai! Give me a break. I gave you a straight answer.