Why do older guys get so excited whenever it comes to taking a trip??
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We’re supposed to travel next week, but I’m coming down with a bit of a cold and want to reschedule. I casually mentioned that I wasn’t feeling well over LINE, but he hasn’t shown any concern or even said, “Don’t push yourself if the trip is too much.” Instead, he keeps talking about the inn he booked and what the schedule is going to be.....
Last time, I suddenly canceled an overnight stay because I was sick, and it almost led to us breaking up. So this time, I feel like I’ll have to drag myself there no matter what.
How can I turn down the trip without sounding passive-aggressive...?
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It’s next week, right? Cancelling would incur a fee and inconvenience everyone involved, so I guess you have no choice but to go this time.
I’m heading to a tropical destination tomorrow, and I couldn’t be more excited. I’m going to have an amazing time.
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You should have made it clear from the start that traveling was a no-go.
If you agree and then cancel at the last minute, it’s understandable that your papa (male supporter) would have something to say. There may also be cancellation fees involved.
If he’s the kind of papa who won’t continue unless you travel or stay overnight, and you’re not comfortable with that, it’s probably best to part ways.
He’d likely be happier with someone who doesn’t mind traveling or spending the night, too.
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You do understand that flights and hotels charge cancellation fees, right? This causes trouble for the travel industry too.
You may have no choice but to look for a papa who isn’t interested in overnight stays.
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Let me translate the question for you, sweetheart.
“How can I turn down the trip without sounding rude?”
→ “How can I keep this arrangement going as usual—without getting hurt or making papa (a male supporter) angry—while only having to open my legs a little?”
Allow me to answer as well:
Has your brain leaked out?
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It’s not that men get especially excited about traveling; it’s simply that your partner is enthusiastic about it. So other men can’t really say why your partner is so eager.
If he brought up breaking up after you declined an overnight trip, there may not be any way to turn down the trip without things getting awkward. Your partner may be someone who doesn’t see the value in dating someone who can’t go on overnight stays or trips.
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