Tips May 17, 2023 13:22

I’m so fed up that the salon has finally started allowing face photos too. I received a message saying that women who are willing to show their faces have a wider range of setting opportunities, but of course I said no. At this point, isn’t it basically the same as Universe?

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I work as a Ginza hostess, and although the salon advertises men with annual incomes of 40 million yen or more, my impression is that there are overwhelmingly more merely well-off men compared with the people who drink in Ginza. An allowance of 50,000–100,000 yen is considered normal, and I often find myself thinking, “I know so many better restaurants than this,” whenever we go out for dinner lol. Though I guess the men can’t go to very expensive places lol. Also, there’s a woman named ○○ whose attitude is always terrible. Whenever I’m called in for a setting and find out that ○○ is handling it, I feel depressed before I even get there. When things don’t work out, she acts as though it’s somehow my fault… On the other hand, △△ is always incredibly considerate toward the women, and I’m very grateful for her support every time!
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Fuu
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
If that’s how strongly you feel, why not look for a papa (a male supporter) among the customers while working as a hostess? I wonder why you don’t. There’s no point complaining here about the club staff’s poor service, so I think you should contact the club directly by email or some other means.
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ジョー・ルビコン
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🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
I see this site as serving not only as a place to ask questions, but also as a kind of emotional tranquilizer where people can vent their frustrations and feel refreshed. That said, even venting has its rules—or at least its limits. In your case, calling someone out by name is not something I can approve of, especially since you’re hiding behind anonymity yourself. And the whole “she’s expensive, blah blah” part was completely unnecessary. You may be young and inexperienced, but remarks like these have a way of coming back to bite you. Be careful now! And finally, in slightly rougher terms: Taking out your frustrations here? That’s really uncool.
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Since the staff member’s name was included, I changed it to circles and triangles. If the purpose is simply to attack someone, I wish they would do it elsewhere. And since this isn’t actually a question, it should technically be hidden. I haven’t hidden it because it already had answers, but ordinarily, it would be subject to removal. Still, it does make me wonder whether this site has finally become a place for people to post their complaints. If you want to vent, wouldn’t a blog or another message board be more appropriate? If the intention is to damage SALON’s reputation, I’m not sure this will have much effect. As far as I know, there’s nowhere else open to ordinary people where you can meet only men earning around 40 million yen a year or more. There may be private clubs, but in that case, the person asking probably wouldn’t be able to register either. As for showing your face, I am disappointed that one of SALON’s advantages has been lost, but I imagine there were various business-related reasons behind the decision. So I think they came up with this as a last resort: letting each woman choose whether or not to show her face. Since women can choose, it seems perfectly fine to leave it as is if you don’t want to show your face. I believe introductions will still be arranged even without a profile photo.
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I think your best bet is to look for a good papa (a male supporter) through your hostess job. At clubs and salons, I imagine there are plenty of men who’d rather not deal with hostesses. Men who are generous (well-paying) with hostesses are probably in Ginza, not at salons or clubs. They’re a different breed. The noisy, rowdy atmosphere at lounges and clubs, with all the sexual harassment and workplace bullying, makes me want to run for the hills instantly. I wouldn’t want to meet women who thrive in that environment.
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シアトル
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Then why not just leave and find a papa in Ginza? I can’t imagine what’s so fun about spending one million yen at a bar. I’d buy stocks instead.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
So, what’s your question?
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If you’re a Ginza hostess, you should be able to register in Tokyo, right? I once spoke briefly with a gentleman in Tokyo who has an annual income of several hundred billion yen. Since there are men like that, why not try Universe with your face blurred? That man cares a lot about a woman’s profession, but why not give registering a try? If you’re a Ginza hostess and have also registered with a salon, you might be able to understand what he’s saying, even though he can be difficult to follow.
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I think that’s just how it is. One of my papas is the type to spend big in Ginza and Roppongi, but he says, “There are hardly any people at dating clubs who would spend ¥1 million on a single night at a bar.” And honestly, he has a point. The goals are different, in a way. People in dating arrangements are looking for intimacy or romance, whereas customers in Ginza are seeking the power to dominate the room. The latter costs more money. That said, I also love “moderately wealthy papas” who don’t go to clubs or hostess bars. Since they’re elite professionals, they’re incredibly smart and respectable, and they’re great on the intimate side too. Plus, because they aren’t popular with women, I don’t have to get annoyed by all the random girls throwing themselves at them like club hostesses’ assistants do, lol. Isn’t it nice when a moderately wealthy papa pours as much allowance as he can into just you? When he focuses on one person, the allowance can be quite substantial. I hope you find a moderately wealthy papa who focuses solely on you, too. P.S. Someone here answered, “What’s so fun about spending ¥1 million? I’d buy stocks instead.” But the people who spend ¥1 million at clubs are already buying stocks as a matter of course. They’re enjoying themselves on top of that. You don’t have to force yourself to associate with people who don’t understand that.
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