My parents keep telling me I shouldn’t do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
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But realistically, my family is on the verge of financial collapse.
They say the reason I shouldn’t do papa-katsu is because it’s prostitution. I was the biggest idiot for telling them about it. I’m foolish for being unable to make a decision.
My father also has a spending problem.
We have no savings, and there’s no security for our future.
I realize I should leave home, too.
But would someone as stupid as me really be able to make money through papa-katsu?
Is papa-katsu prostitution?
If you have ordinary common sense, I don’t think you’d tell your parents that you want to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
And I’m sure any parent who heard that would be nothing but shocked. I don’t understand why you’d go out of your way to tell your parents something like that.
I can at least understand talking it over with a friend. But if it’s something you can’t even tell your friends, I think it’s better not to tell anyone.
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Find a legitimate daytime job, move out, and use papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) to make up any shortfall. That way, you can improve your finances with the extra money from papa-katsu.
That would probably be the best approach.
What I don’t understand is why you haven’t become independent when you’re over 20.
Legally, papa-katsu isn’t prostitution.
From now on, try to think about how the other person might feel before you speak.
If your boyfriend says he wants to do mama-katsu because he has no money, why would he tell you not to? He’s broke. From your boyfriend’s point of view, he’s probably thinking, “Why doesn’t she understand?”...
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I was about to hide it because no one had answered...
But then I saw that someone had replied.
Still, this is yet another pointless question—or rather, the kind of post that seems like it was written just to mess around.
Now they’re even asking bizarre things like, “Is marriage prostitution?”
People like this should go to some other message board or social media and do whatever they want there.
(Though maybe nobody takes them seriously anywhere else.)
> My household has no savings, and I have no security for my old age.
If you have Japanese citizenship, Japan has a public assistance system, so you do have at least the minimum guarantee of being able to live a healthy and culturally decent life.
Are you saying that level of security in old age isn’t good enough, and that you want to live more luxuriously?
Why not apply for public assistance right now?
You can’t receive it if you have assets at home, but if you truly have nothing, you should be eligible for public assistance.
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Parents who won’t support you financially and have a spending problem are awful people, so cut off contact and move out on your own as soon as possible. Leave your parents behind.
It’s okay to crash at a friend’s place, too.
If it’s papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) with someone you genuinely like, it isn’t prostitution, so give it your best shot.
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