Tips Mar 31, 2023 19:55

Does a campaign offering men gifts or money just for attending a papa-katsu interview really benefit male members?

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It seems papa-katsu—viewed as a well-paying side job where the process from the interview through the first date is treated as one package, and where you get to see a world you normally wouldn’t—has become popular among some students. The university students I met were a group of four who occasionally exchanged information about dating clubs, including which apps were good or bad. They said they even received gifts, and since there was no obligation to pursue an ongoing relationship, they saw it as something casual. There are moments when I feel it’s foolish to spend my valuable time on this, but then I think that maybe I’ll meet someone I click with. Perhaps that’s just the male instinct. Still, thinking of everything up through the first date as a single part-time job really takes the romance out of it.
👤 Asked by Guest 👨GenderMale 🎂 60s 👑 Universe male member
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フラグメーカー
フラグメーカー Male Column Send a reverse offer to this responder
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
You’ve got your dreams mixed up. Getting into an adult relationship (intimate) with a papa-katsu woman who’s already committed to it is easy if you simply pay her desired allowance. Is that really all you dream of? Wouldn’t it be more of a dream to make a woman who treats it like just a part-time job fall for you instead?
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だて◎ゆめ
👨 Male Universe member
Well, since everyone’s in it for the money, that’s pretty normal at first. If you have even one of these qualities— - The ability to judge men well - A willingness to listen - A genuine desire to engage with him —you’ll gradually become closer.(笑)
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Fuu
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Why not stop making offers to college students and minors, and instead approach people with higher ratings? In a world like this, of course there are all kinds of women. Some probably join thinking it’ll be an easy side job. We male members are the ones who lose out if no new women join. There will be both good and bad ones, but without a decent number of women, there’s no point. I think it’s necessary as a marketing strategy to attract a certain number of women.
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前澤(スタッフ)
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Huh? This doesn’t even really seem like a question in the first place. If the person asking this is registered with Universe, I almost feel like adding: “Please be careful—this man is boring. You’re allowed to turn down his offer.” I’d feel sorry for any woman who received an offer from him.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
②, definitely. Just like Mac, I thought he seemed pretty boring. Wouldn’t it be a good thing if more women came in for interviews and there were more options to choose from? Personally, I don’t like female college students, so I don’t really care.
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マックさん
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
“Severity” scale ===== ① Provoking people just to get the respondents’ attention, ② wanting to make small talk because they’re bored, despite having no malicious intent, ③ wanting a quick answer because researching it yourself or contacting the branch office is too much trouble, ④ a simple, genuine question, ⑤ genuinely struggling and seriously seeking advice (severity increases from ① to ⑤) ===== By that scale, you’re unmistakably a ②, no matter how you look at it. It’s practically nothing more than a complaint. Even among people of the same gender and age, you’re exactly the kind of person I’d least want to associate with. Please be aware of that.
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