So there are really female members on Universe who aren’t worth even a five-star rating?
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I guess you could simply say we didn’t click, but she couldn’t even keep a conversation going, so I had to work hard to keep things flowing. She didn’t seem particularly interested in talking, either.
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If the same thing happens when you make offers to other five-star women, the issue may be on your end.
If you want to enjoy this club, I recommend making an offer to another five-star woman right away to confirm.
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I’m Zuiki, a beginner male member who’s always nervous about whether my answers really address the question.
Even with a five-star woman, it’s not necessarily that she’s bad—sometimes you simply don’t click, or she isn’t feeling well that day, and things end up becoming difficult, right? That’s happened in my limited experience making offers, too.
It was at a Japanese restaurant with counter seating. She started with shochu on the rocks, then downed both red and white wine, while I listened to about an hour of complaints and boastful stories. Then she got blackout drunk and suddenly left.
I assume that was just the kind of mood she was in that day.
She made such a strong impression that, partly out of curiosity and partly to improve my own judgment, I occasionally check her profile afterward—please don’t think I’m creepy... sweat. Since then, she’s continued to go back and forth between five and four stars.
In other words, that’s how it is.
Rather than judging someone solely by their star rating, you might be able to reduce these kinds of mismatches by paying close attention to the club’s comments afterward and consulting the branch about women you’re planning to make offers to.
Here’s hoping your next offer is a great match!
Just my personal opinion, from a humble member of the “Committee for Eliminating Mismatches”—Don’t Let It Get You Down Division.
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Put another way, this ends up sounding like:
“So there are male members at Universe who aren’t acceptable, even with a ⭐︎5 rating?”
Or, to take it even further:
“So even Universe, where only gentlemen who pass the membership screening can join, has unsuitable male members?”
I can’t help wondering what good it does to write something like that here.
To begin with, what exactly are you using as the basis for calling her “unsuitable”? It’s more likely that you simply weren’t compatible.
> The woman didn’t seem very interested in having a conversation.
It’s also possible that she found your conversation boring, disliked your attitude, or had already been put off by you at that point.
If so, there’s a possibility that the problem wasn’t the woman, but you.
That said, even then, it may simply be that you weren’t her type, so we can’t say for certain that you were at fault either.
Still, as a general approach, when things don’t go well, rather than immediately blaming everything on the other person, I think it’s better to start by reconsidering whether there might have been a problem on your end—such as your outfit or something in the way you handled the conversation.
If, after doing that, everything seems fine, then it’s reasonable to conclude that it was simply a matter of compatibility.
But if you immediately describe the other person as some kind of unsuitable woman, then it naturally becomes more likely that people will think the problem lies with you.
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According to the recently introduced setting data, about 70% of men rate their experience with women as either “very good” or “good” in the surveys.
Also, with a letter date, the survey is sent before you actually meet.
If you’ve managed to have a reasonably smooth exchange by then, many men will probably rate it as “good.”
Taking that into account, I think there are factors that make it easier to receive a five-star rating.
I also suspect that men’s standards when completing the survey vary depending on the woman’s relationship type.
For example, with a woman whose relationship type is C or D, I feel that if they can at least have an adult relationship (intimate) on the first date, many men would rate it as “very good” or “good,” even if the conversation wasn’t particularly engaging.
I once met a five-star woman with type C myself. Something during dinner made me slightly uncomfortable, but she invited me to have an adult relationship (intimate), so I rated her as “good” on the survey.
If you place a strong emphasis on conversation, perhaps you should try pursuing a five-star woman with relationship type B next time.
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That might be a valid complaint if the club were the one deciding the star rating (though it would still be a bit much), but the stars are actually based on ratings from male members you’ve met.
A five-star rating means that at least four male members gave you high marks, so if you want to complain, those are the people you should be complaining to. But before that, I think you should be asking yourself whether you might have done something wrong.
You’ll probably receive an email with a survey, so I think it’s perfectly fine to give your honest evaluation of him a low rating. You had a bad impression of him, after all, so cast your vote with a clear conscience.
In fact, there are women whose ratings drop after reaching five stars. Sometimes a woman’s reputation worsens because something changes as she meets more and more men. You may have simply happened to encounter that turning point.
Still, I think you should start with some honest self-reflection. Identify what you can improve, submit your evaluation separately, then reset your mindset and move on to the next offer. It’s really that simple.
Taro
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I can’t say at all whether you’re the problem or not.
But when something goes wrong, it’s wiser to assume you may have some responsibility and reflect on your own actions.
Rather, it’s better to think, “Am I really that bad? I’ll do better next time,” and feel grateful that their feedback gave you the courage to try again.
Also, once you’ve received a five-star rating (and are still getting offers), it’s already too late to worry about maintaining things, so you don’t need to think about continuing. If you were firmly established with good papas at five stars, you wouldn’t even be shown. In other words, the good papas aren’t continuing with you enough.
It’s fine to think of it as a possibility, nothing more.
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A ★5 rating suggests that she’s had several dates with you and has generally been well regarded, but as for seeming “not very interested in talking”…
This may sound harsh, but could your first impression not have been very good?
Can you think of anything that might have caused it? Maybe you were late, chose a noisy restaurant, or even had some nori stuck between your front teeth (lol).
Of course, she may simply have had her own reasons for not being in the mood, or she might have been nervous.
Dating and relationships are all about trial and error! You can ask for advice here or from the staff, and keep experimenting based on perspectives from different people. I think that’s the best approach.
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