I haven’t had my heart broken in a long time.
If I ever have to part ways with a monthly partner I’ve grown close to here, I’ll:
Eat my fill of Tenkaippin’s rich ramen, gyoza from Gyoza no Ohsho, and yakiniku,
Then drink myself silly,
Pull myself together, start looking for a new woman to meet, make lots of offers here, find someone great, and get comforted again.
That’s the cycle.
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Since going through a divorce, I haven’t experienced a breakup in the usual sense.
The shock and regret of my divorce were so profound that I think I’ve changed into someone who acts in ways to prevent women from walking away. It wasn’t a conscious decision, but being told by your partner that they want a divorce is an incredibly powerful shock. Almost everything else in life can be changed through your own efforts and actions, but when the person who wants the divorce feels the complete opposite, there’s nothing you can do about it.
So I’ve forgotten what I did after a breakup. It was so long ago…
But I think I must have been hung up on it for quite a while. The fact that my self-defense mechanisms kicked in says as much.
I think it’s important to let yourself feel down sometimes. That energy can build up for the future, and eventually help you bounce back.
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That sounds great! Treat yourself to a spa treatment or a visit to the salon!
And then do lots of the things you love—karaoke, reading, watching Amazon Prime, even focusing on work. You could also try a cat café or go hiking.
The best thing would probably be meeting someone you really like.
Heartbreak is tough｡ °(°´ᯅ`°)° ｡
Don’t push yourself too hard!
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Going to a spa to take care of your skin sounds like a great idea! I hope you become so beautiful that you can make them regret losing you!
When I get my heart broken, I eat and sleep… That’s about it.
Other than that, I work. I love my job!
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When I go through a breakup, I treat myself to a little luxury to take my mind off it.
Like you mentioned, I might spend a bit on self-care, such as a spa treatment, or buy some fancy sweets or alcohol from the department store basement—things I wouldn’t normally get—and relax at home watching a movie. I also like sitting at a terrace café in stylish areas like Ginza or Omotesando, zoning out and people-watching!
I hope that by the time your heartbreak heals, you’ll meet someone wonderful!
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