I’m considering joining a salon.

I assume you want to use it like a delivery health service, but I think it’s better to see the lack of predetermined dating types as part of the romance. If you don’t find any romance in that, you’d probably be more satisfied going to a delivery health service or a soapland. Universe Club has its own drawbacks because it uses dating types. Some men complain, saying things like, “I was rejected even though her type was B,” or “She was type C, but she still turned me down,” and then call it “dating-type fraud.” But this is free-form dating, so if the other person isn’t interested, being turned down is only natural. It’s completely wrong to assume that having a dating type means you can’t be rejected. Unlike Universe, SALON lets you speak directly with the other person. That gives you the advantage of being able to judge through normal conversation whether a woman might be open to taking things further. (You’re not allowed to ask directly, of course—and if you did, it would be obvious right away.)

I’m not a salon member, but— For a setup date, you make a same-day booking after asking what the girl feels like and prefers that day. For a letter date, you choose someone through advance communication and make the booking ahead of time. Going out for a meal or to a hotel with a girl should be enjoyable. If you find it a hassle, that attitude is probably showing, so I think you should either work on that first or leave the club.

There’s no fixed dating type. We usually go out first and discuss the terms afterward. That said, I think it’s safe to assume there aren’t any obvious Type A women. I personally avoided booking meals or hotels in advance and decided what to do after going out together. However, since it’s better to discuss things somewhere calm, there’s a fairly upscale café near the salon where we could make reservations, so I booked that place every time. My usual routine was: go out → discuss things at the café → (meal → hotel). About one in three women ended up having an adult relationship (intimate) with me that same day. It wasn’t necessarily because they were Type B; I simply strongly felt that the first meeting should be more of an introduction, with a proper date starting from the second time onward. On the other hand, there were also times when, after going out and talking, I decided there wouldn’t be any ongoing arrangement, so we just went ahead and did what needed to be done that day. Please take this into consideration.

Yes, there’s no fixed dating type. I talk things over with the woman after we go out. I don’t think of it as negotiation. I don’t make restaurant reservations in advance. Once I know I’ll be going out with a woman, I ask about her preferences and book a restaurant that suits her tastes. I often book a hotel because I like sleeping in hotels. Even if we don’t end up having an adult relationship (intimate) that day, I can simply sleep there by myself. As I said, “once I know I’ll be going out,” it only happens when both the man and woman want to go out together. Going out isn’t guaranteed.