If a woman showed up to your first meeting wearing Moncler and carrying Hermès (a Birkin or Picotin), would you want to build a relationship with her going forward?
Also, what kind of outfit or bag would make you want to see her again?
Thank you in advance.
I’m not interested in designer brands, so even if a woman wore them, I probably wouldn’t notice.
I give every woman the same allowance, and I rarely buy anniversary gifts either.
If she’s okay with that, I’m happy to see her without worrying about anything else.
That said, there are things I don’t mind spending money on myself.
I think it’s simply that what I choose to spend money on is different from what she does.
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Regardless of the brand, if someone gives off that kind of vibe, you probably wouldn’t want to build a relationship with them.
What people prioritize varies from person to person.
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Wait, Moncler is a luxury brand?!
Almost 40 years ago, when I was in college, everyone around me—including me—had one.
I’d been thinking lately that I was seeing this nostalgic brand again…汗
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I honestly have no idea what a Birkin or a Picotin even is. I’m just an ordinary office worker with no connection to designer brands.
So feel free to come to our date wearing a Birkin, shoes made from a Picotin, and riding a Moncler. Let’s meet in front of Hermès.
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Universe also has regular salaried employees, not just generous (well-paying) papas.
If you show up carrying a Birkin, they may think, “Whoa, she brought a Birkin... She’s going to be expensive. I don’t need a woman like that.” So I think it’s better not to show up looking too flashy.
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I find myself wondering which of these applies:
1. She’s surrounded by women like that—friends, for example. Maybe she comes from a well-off family or went to an elite women’s university?
2. Or maybe she has no friends and low self-esteem, and can’t walk around town confidently without using designer brands as armor.
3. Is it a silent way of saying, “I’m not cheap”? Maybe she thinks fancy packaging means she can command a higher price. She doesn’t seem to consider that people might be put off by thinking, “She looks expensive,” and never invite her to their room.
4. Maybe she hasn’t realized that it comes across the way I described in #3. She could simply be a foolish brand-lover—or perhaps she’s just naturally sweet and innocent. Maybe she came expecting a nice restaurant? If so, that’s kind of cute.
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I see questions like this from time to time, but personally, I don’t really care what someone wears or what brands they have on.
I’m from the countryside, so I know local brands pretty well, but when it comes to anything else, I’m just like, “What’s that?” lol
Rather than focusing on clothes, I think paying more attention to someone’s attitude, manners, and what they talk about is more likely to lead to a lasting arrangement.
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I don’t judge someone based solely on what they’re wearing or carrying.
I once met a woman wearing Van Cleef earrings and a necklace that were more expensive than a lizard Birkin. We had a great conversation over dinner, agreed on a standard allowance, and became intimate.
However, although the sex was physically satisfying, it was otherwise nothing special, and I was put off by how loose-lipped she was, so I haven’t seen her since. I did ask what kind of relationship she’d had with the man who bought her the Van Cleef jewelry, but I didn’t appreciate her telling someone she’d just met the man’s name.
So, after all, I don’t think what someone carries or wears has anything to do with whether I want to see her again.
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There was also a woman who showed up carrying a Birkin. We agreed on a standard allowance and became intimate, but the sex wasn’t very good, so I didn’t see her a second time.
Even if a woman shows up with a Birkin, if we can agree on the allowance, I’m willing to see where things go. But just because she owns a Birkin doesn’t mean I’ll want to take things further.
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Personally, Moncler doesn’t bother me at all.
A Birkin, on the other hand, might make me a little wary.
That said, if it’s just the bag that’s high-end, I wouldn’t decide against a second date for that reason alone. But if someone is decked out in expensive designer items from head to toe, I might be put off.
As for clothes, I actually like it when they aren’t high-brand, but the bag is from Celine, Chloé, Loewe, or the like.
Also, this is just my personal opinion, but I’m not really a fan of women who wear Van Cleef necklaces, while I do like women who wear Tiffany necklaces (lol).
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