May I ask a couple of questions?

Even at Universe, I avoid women with experience working in the nightlife industry. I always make sure to ask the staff about this. Hostess work is relatively easy to spot, but women from the adult entertainment industry can be surprisingly difficult to identify. I feel like women from the hostessing world often have telltale signs—wearing designer items they couldn’t afford on a daytime part-time income, or having obviously had cosmetic work done. Women from the adult entertainment industry, on the other hand, tend to be popular precisely because they look surprisingly ordinary, so they’re harder to distinguish from hostessing women. Incidentally, I get the impression that women from the adult entertainment side are somewhat more likely to have a lonely, gloomy air about them.

This isn’t limited to nightlife scouts, but people who get results always do things like: - Put proven success strategies into practice - Imitate successful examples There are probably certain standards they follow, as well as “killer lines” based on women’s psychology. So I don’t think you should take “You looked like someone from the nightlife industry” too seriously. > “You have lonely eyes.” That may also be a line designed to exploit women’s psychology. Most women would probably ignore a nightlife scout, but in reality, you felt uneasy, were emotionally shaken, and ended up posting this question. Don’t admit to yourself, “I feel empty inside”! Counseling can be helpful, but these people are professionals at psychological manipulation. If you happen to get involved with a dubious counselor, there’s also a risk they could prey on your anxiety and keep you coming back. Please be careful! Whether it’s a hobby or something else, I think it would be good to find something you’re good at and can devote yourself to wholeheartedly. — It’s me

> What does someone who gets scouted for nightlife work look like? Since they said, “Because I thought you were part of the nightlife scene,” I assume you looked like someone who works in the hostessing or other nightlife business. That’s probably the criterion: whether you have that kind of look. > And what does it mean to have lonely-looking eyes? It might just be an excuse to strike up a conversation, but why not look in the mirror? Asking an anonymous Q&A box about something you already know the answer to—yes, that does sound rather lonely.