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Dec 17, 2022 00:56
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Among the women I know, the only ones who see just one person either have a regular day job as their main source of income or are seeing one extremely generous papa (a male supporter).
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Other
Some of my papas seem to have only me, while others don’t say anything, but I get the feeling they probably have other girls too.
Marika
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I think it depends on what you’re looking for in the women you meet through the club.
I’ve never cheated in a private relationship.
After separating from my ex-wife, I simply wanted to see as many women’s bodies as possible, so I spent a while playing around extensively.
That phase is over now, and I’ve narrowed it down to about three women, shifting toward longer-term relationships.
I haven’t limited it to just one because I never know when one of them might get a boyfriend or marriage partner and we’d have to part ways. That way, I don’t get too emotionally invested.
Other
I’m exclusive with one person.
That said, it took more than 50 offers to get here...
I can’t go into too much detail, but I once got engaged to a woman I met through a dating club, and we even reached the point of planning to meet each other’s parents. However, due to circumstances beyond either of our control, we ended up parting ways.
Even though it ended, it was an incredibly valuable experience to develop a relationship—from meeting through a dating club—to the point where we recognized each other as life partners, regardless of whether we actually married. I wanted to experience again the【happiness, struggles, and despair of committing to and facing life with just one person】, so I continued my search for someone who was willing to be exclusive as well.
At last, I found that person, and we’re very happy together.
Of course, I provide financial support, and this month we’ve been seeing each other roughly every other day (two days in a row over Christmas). Even on days when we don’t have an adult relationship (intimate), I still give her the amount we agreed on for when we do, so I guess I’m probably a very generous papa (laughs).
But I can definitely feel that our relationship has reached a point where neither of us thinks of it as papa-katsu anymore.
So, things like this do happen. There are even real examples of people meeting through a club and getting married.
In conclusion, yes, it is possible to be exclusive with one person.
Other
Having several of them is a hassle.
👨 Male
Universe member
We’re both single.
I’m the owner of a small company, and she mainly works a regular day job. As for boyfriends, she’s either the type who chooses not to have one—or maybe just can’t get one.
When we started seeing each other, she was a student. But since I’m such a generous papa (lol), she began focusing mainly on her day job, and we’re about to reach our fifth year together.
I’m not exactly handsome, so I feel bad that it probably looks unnatural when we’re together. But things between us are good, and we’ve just kept going without knowing when it’ll end (lol).
She says, “I’ll leave the nest when the time comes,” so I’m choosing to look forward to that (lol) and tell her, “Until then, I’ll take care of you…”
Other
Female member Potassium here.
I only have one papa (a male supporter), and because of that, he raised my monthly allowance!
He’s really sweet. If I had to brag a little, we often have pretty fancy meals too. But I actually like Burger King, okonomiyaki, and ramen, so whenever I ask, he takes me out for them.
I’m really grateful—nothing but appreciation.
That’s what my papa is like. Just my personal take.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m sure there are men like that too. Probably not as many proportionally as women, though.
Some people can focus on just one partner, while others can’t. Some enjoy seeing multiple people, while others don’t.
There are all kinds of different types among both men and women.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m sure there are women like that.
I know one woman who only sees one papa.