Even though I clearly state my preferred age range, men older than that still send me offers. Does that mean they aren’t looking at my preferred age in the first place?
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On the men’s side, is the woman’s preferred age listed as a comment from the staff? Or is it shown as one of the profile details, like “Preferred age: up to the late 50s”?
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First, ask the club staff to clearly include it in the profile.
When you receive an offer, ask the club staff each time how old the person is, then decline if necessary.
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If I thought I’d probably be okay with it, I’d still make an offer even if her age was listed.
I probably wouldn’t make an offer if she said she was in her early 30s, but I likely would if she said she was in her late 30s.
So it’s better to set the age limit about 20 years younger than the oldest age you’re actually willing to consider.
Especially since, as a matter of social courtesy, women stay in their late 20s forever, while men stop aging once they hit their early 40s… (Even though you can usually tell someone’s real age roughly from their appearance.)
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I’m a female member, Potassium.
That happens all the time, lol.
About half of the people who have sent me offers didn’t read my stated age preference.
(Anything shown in the preview of a female member’s page should be visible to men.)
I think the quickest way is to turn them down as soon as you receive the offer, saying that it won’t work for you age-wise.
It won’t affect your survey results, either.
If even that feels like a hassle, it might be best to mention it at the very beginning of your profile comments.
Just my personal opinion, though.
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If you want to set an age cutoff, I think you should be upfront and write:
“My preferred age range is up to 55. Regardless of appearance, personality, or allowance, I prioritize actual age.”
It’s me.
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Either they haven’t seen it, or they’re trying their luck despite seeing it. It’s often mentioned in the staff comments.
You can leave a comment for the woman, so why not write it there yourself?
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As you pointed out, it’s listed as one of the “age range for dates” fields.
That said, some men make offers without checking the finer details, so it’s possible they simply haven’t seen it.
There could be various reasons—for example, I’ve heard some say they don’t want to form preconceived notions before meeting someone.
By the way, I fill out my profile, but there are also women who don’t look at it at all before meeting up.
Others may think, “They might still be okay with it even if they’re slightly outside my preferred range,” and make an offer just to see.
In any case, if you’d reject someone based on age alone, you can simply decline if you receive an offer.
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I’m not registered with Universe Club, so I’m not sure how their system works…
If your profile says that you only accept offers from men in their late 50s or younger, then it’s probably an offer from someone who didn’t read it.
Or perhaps he’s actually older than that but is confident he doesn’t look his age. You do come across the occasional stylish, youthful-looking older gentleman, so you won’t know until you meet him!
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