Itsu-Mei:
> I think her husband or boyfriend probably had to work on Christmas Eve. My vote is that she invited you because she didn’t want to spend it alone.
I hope she gets to enjoy Christmas Eve with her husband or boyfriend! It’s not really my place to say that, though lol.
Dai:
> It’s not like she sees you as her boyfriend.
I honestly can’t understand how you arrived at that response from the context... It made me wonder whether my question was strange, but the other respondents seem to have a different opinion from yours...
Aya:
I’m single!
Marika:
I’m single! I could easily buy something like a designer handbag as a present! But I want my beloved papa-katsu girl to spend Christmas Eve with the person she likes—not with me.
Dáte◎Yume:
I suppose “the whole premise is strange” is probably the correct answer after all...
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Speaking personally,
My favorite papa (a male supporter) has a family, so we can’t go on dates.
Being home alone only makes me feel lonelier, so I’d rather go on dates with other men than be alone.
Maybe the woman your partner is seeing feels the same way.
She’s trying to sound like a nice person, but honestly, I think she’s being pretty unpleasant—like, mind your own business.
Marika
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“I hope you have a lovely Christmas Eve with your husband or boyfriend!”
No, I think PJ’s partner probably had to work that evening or was otherwise unable to go on a date, which is why she invited you to spend Christmas Eve together.
PJ chose to spend Christmas Eve with you instead of having a girls’ night. I think you should just wag your tail happily and accept the invitation.
People usually aren’t watching us nearly as much as we think they are. Age-gap couples aren’t unusual, so acting confident and enjoying yourselves will look much more natural.
Turning down a woman who wants to go on a date with you just because you feel self-conscious would be a shame—and rude to her.
So, in short: “You have no choice but to accept.”
— It’s me
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That’s simply how I interpreted the questioner’s wording.
Also, is there a problem with having a different view from the other respondents?
This is a Q&A forum where people offer various perspectives, so if you don’t understand my answer, feel free to ignore it.
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If meeting on Christmas Eve seems unavoidable, how about booking a luxury hotel and having a “room date,” with each of you going to separate rooms?
That way, you won’t have to walk around town as an age-gap couple on Christmas Eve and endure people giving you disapproving looks.
The girl can enjoy the luxurious hotel too, and I think it would make a nice memory.
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