I’ve met more than 10 people so far, but only one arrangement has continued—about a year and a half now. It’s really hard to find someone who’s truly a good match for you.
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What percentage of the people you’ve met are you still seeing?
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To think that someone has kept it going for over a year and a half after meeting only a little over ten people…
I’d say that’s a truly lucky connection.
I only meet people I feel could be a good long-term match, so my continuation rate is pretty high.
I wonder if my rate for arrangements lasting over a year is around 50%?
Early on, I wasn’t really sure how to conduct myself, so there were two or three people in a row where things just naturally ended after one or two dates.
It’s me.
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I’ve always had an unusually high rate of ongoing arrangements. Out of every 10 people I met, things would continue with three or four of them unless I was the one to end it.
Because those arrangements would easily last over a year, they gradually became exhausting both schedule-wise and mentally and physically, so I narrowed it down to only the papas I genuinely liked.
I’m not sure why, but I think it was because I basically agreed to all of my papas’ requests.
If you also agree to everything the women ask of you, I think your rate of continuing arrangements will go up— for better or worse.
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When I first started, I enjoyed having adult relationships with various women, so I wasn’t considering seeing anyone long-term in the first place.
These days, I continue to meet three women. (I ended up narrowing it down to about three out of twenty, based on things like sexual compatibility.)
The longest-lasting arrangement has been about a year and a half, just like yours.
I’m running out of room to add anyone new, but since they’re all attractive women, I can’t really help it.
By the way, one thing the women I’ve continued seeing for a long time may have in common is that they enjoy drinking.
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If you think something is difficult, you’ll act that way, so you’ll decide it’s impossible. Women don’t want cautious consideration and kindness if they’re only half-hearted.
If you believe in the possibility, even difficult things can become reality. I believe in miracles like the one in the Germany match, too. If you don’t think something is possible, you won’t have a miraculous encounter—and you might not even notice the opportunity.
If she’s a favorite of yours, in a dating club there’s not just a personal relationship but also a financial connection, so it’s not something that can easily be severed.
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Wouldn’t it be considered pretty good if one out of ten offers lasted a year and a half?
Women are often young, so their circumstances can change in a short period due to life events, starting a job, changing jobs, getting a boyfriend, getting married, and so on. That naturally increases the chances of parting ways, doesn’t it?
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I think most men would say that, among the women they date, there are quite a few they get along with reasonably well.
However, when it comes to continuing to pay in order to keep things going, there are very few who truly work out, which is why the relationships don’t last.
I think this phenomenon exists in mainstream society too, not just in dating clubs. In the end, it’s simply a matter of where you draw the line.
In our case, neither of us is looking for the perfect partner, which is probably why we’ve stayed together for so long—almost five years now. We’re a pair consisting of a man in his 60s and a woman in her 20s, but she still enjoys seeing me without getting bored（笑）
For me, it started with her turning down my offer. After meeting three women, I ended up continuing with a doll-like kogal country girl who was willing to listen to me at the time（笑）
I’ve mentioned her here several times, but she’s grown into such a lovely young woman that I’d never feel embarrassed taking her anywhere.
Not only has it lasted—she never wants to leave!（笑）
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That’s a cruel question to ask.
I’ve never had a relationship with a woman I met at university last more than six months. But honestly, it doesn’t bother me at all.
P.S.
I’ll say something cruel too, Mac.
You probably don’t have many friends, either. But honestly, that doesn’t bother you at all.
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Everyone has different expectations and boundaries when it comes to their partner, so I don’t think there’s much point in knowing what other people do.
Besides, “continuing” hasn’t even been defined. If you want to compare, shouldn’t you first establish consistent terms for comparison?
I believe you learned about controlled experiments in elementary school science.
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