Do men who have been with a club for a long time lack the ability or mindset to improve the way they approach relationships?
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Most men who have been registered with a club for years are pretty much people to avoid, in my experience. They’re usually cheap, unimpressive men who can’t attract or retain a good girl. You can practically sense that they’ll be hanging around the club forever.
Honestly, I wish they’d include how long a man has been registered whenever I receive an offer. I really don’t want offers from men who have been with the club for years. But even if I say this, I guess the men it applies to probably don’t realize it.
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If you clearly state in your profile, “I don’t accept male members who have been registered for more than ○ years,” people like me—veterans with over five years under our belts—won’t make you an offer.
I think it’s probably just coincidence, though. There are strange papas who’ve been members for a long time, and strange papas who’ve only recently joined. I think it really depends on the person.
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I have to strongly disagree. A senior member I know, who’s been with Univa for ten years, is an amazing male member.
Personally, I think he’s “the ultimate balanced type.” I haven’t told him that, though, lol.
Of course, he’s definitely an older gentleman. But once you talk to him, you find yourself thinking, “Actually, he’s kind of appealing.” It completely changes your impression. I guess you won’t understand unless you experience it for yourself.
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Well, I realize I’m probably the person most similar to the man described in your question. I’ve written about myself so many times I could practically copy and paste it, but I can’t exactly call myself sophisticated, and things hardly ever work out. The only reason I’m still registered is probably that faint, slightly naughty hope of “maybe this time.”
You may not believe this, but there are also two women—albeit only a few—with whom I’ve continued seeing each other for about as long as I’ve been registered. More than anything, after gaining a little experience through the club, you can become friendly with women outside the club as well. That’s what makes dating clubs so remarkable: even someone as unsophisticated as me can experience things like this.
Before joining the club, I never would have suggested something like, “Echizen crab season has opened, so let’s go to Fukui.” Then again, why is Echizen crab so ridiculously expensive? I only realized it when the bill came, but it really isn’t as delicious as everyone says it is (lol).
By the way, the chances of my making an offer to you are as close to zero as they can be, so I don’t think you’ll have to worry about me bothering you.
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Sorry for being around for so long.
Even if it’s true that I’m lacking in the ability to improve, I’ve managed to find good women with a pretty high success rate. Rather than sticking with one person long-term, I’d rather get to know all kinds of women.
That may not sit well with some women, including the person who asked the question, but I can always find plenty of women I hit it off with, so I never get bored.
I’ll stick around a little longer and continue contributing to the club’s sales.
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If a male member is willing to improve and has room to grow, I’d think he’d become an even better papa the longer he stays with the club. Have you really never met a papa like that?
Sorry for answering your question with another question.
It’s me.
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Basically, I agree with Kazu-san.
I’ve also talked with the college student I’ve recently gotten close to about parting ways if she gets a boyfriend.
As a man, I feel like you can take it fairly easy—if one relationship ends, you can just look for the next one.
On the other hand, the person asking this question gives off nothing but the vibe of being a PJ who’s a person to avoid.
If you tell the club that you don’t want to meet men who have been registered for a long time, I think the staff will take that into consideration.
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After a few years, a woman may get married, change jobs, or otherwise see her circumstances change.
It’s not necessarily because the man lacks the ability to maintain the relationship. Could it be that the person asking the question simply hasn’t considered those possibilities?
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