I’d wait about a week. If you still don’t hear back, I think you’d be better off signing up with another dating club.
I’m 48, and they contacted me the same day, so I’m sure you’ll get a reply soon.
Check whether the email ended up in your spam folder. Or was it LINE?
When I went for my interview, they told me on the spot that I had passed and asked me to register on LINE so I could stay in touch with the staff.
If you haven’t heard back after a few days and it’s bothering you, I think it would be a good idea to check in with them.
I think situations like this come up in all kinds of contexts, not just interviews at dating clubs, but in my opinion, you’re better off not worrying about the kinds of things the questioner is concerned about.
Whatever the competition, there are going to be wins and losses. Shouldn’t you focus on building the mindset to reset and deliver a different performance next time?
When you think about your opponent, people who get hung up on every single contest are actually easier to break down. Everyone makes mistakes and everyone loses sometimes, so if you exaggerate those failures and attack them over it, they’ll fall apart on their own. Once they’re shaken, you just keep rubbing salt into the wound and the win is guaranteed. The truly intimidating ones are people who reset quickly. The kind who got crushed yesterday but come back today fresh and full of energy, as if it were the first round—that’s the most troublesome type. Become that kind of person: someone who doesn’t stay down after losing, someone like a weed that keeps growing back no matter how many times you pull it out.
Let’s completely throw away the idea of “being judged by someone else”—it’s useless. You only need to look at a dating club in terms of whether it’s a sales channel you can make use of. Everyone has different likes and dislikes, so all you need to do is find the place where you shine brightest, get tons of offers there, and make serious money.
Don’t make someone else’s footing your own. Your foundation has to be your own. If you’re asking a tactical question like, “I can’t fight from my own position—what should I do?” regardless of conventional wisdom, I’d be happy to help. I have a fair amount of experience, so I can teach you plenty of underhanded tricks— even things I couldn’t say publicly, lol.
No matter what happens, and no matter what judgment someone passes on you, you are always 100% right. Everyone has the right to live in their own way. Of course, it’s better to find a way to coexist with society, but ultimately, it’s just a matter of finding that compromise. So if you’re asking because you’re being pushed to the brink and your goal is to survive, mentally as well, then you are unquestionably in the right. That’s the kind of thing—or rather, that’s the mindset—you should have when you ask. I’ll be waiting.(^^)
Taro
