I’m in my late 30s and recently divorced, and I’d like to enjoy dating again.
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People tell me I’m attractive.
I’m thinking about signing up with Universe, but I haven’t had sex with anyone in the past 10 years. Would that put people off?
Do you masturbate?
As long as you have a sex drive, you should be fine.
Will things get exciting if you’re a second virgin?
If the passion catches fire, I’m sure your papa (a male supporter) will be happy.
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Sorry for the silly question, but Robert Akiyama’s song “SAY KOU SHOW” came to mind: “Do you have sex after starting a relationship? Or do you start a relationship after having sex?”
In dating-club arrangements, is it sex first or starting the relationship first? Which is it? I feel like the latter is probably more common.
Let’s start with sex. And don’t forget to SAY the allowance in advance—negotiate!
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You’d be put off by someone who had a lot of sex while married, wouldn’t you?
People who have a lot of sex with their husbands don’t tend to get divorced very often, either.
Marika
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That wouldn’t be enough to put anyone off, and I think you could make up for the time away after just a few encounters.
I’d recommend registering without worrying about it.
That said, if you’re looking to enjoy romance, I’d probably recommend B.
But if your priority is getting back into the swing of intimate relationships, C might be better to start with.
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Why not think in terms of addition rather than subtraction?
Focus on the positives, not the negatives:
・Recently divorced
・Wants to enjoy romance
・Around 40
・Good-looking (according to others)
・Positive about papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)
・A “second virgin”
・Able to see things from the other person’s perspective
I’ve already found seven things in your short post that male members might view positively.
If you interview with Universe, a staff member who’s amazing at photographing women beautifully and sexily might bring out even more positives♪
It’s me
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Why are you being so wishy-washy and acting like a slug?
This is about you, isn’t it? If you show a man that kind of negative energy, he’ll take advantage of your vulnerability and offer you a lower allowance.
If you say you’re beautiful, email Universe to book an interview. You may not get an offer at your age, but you won’t know unless you try. Even I get offers, so hold your head high.
☆ Don’t mistake “holding your head high” for acting cocky or aggressive. Be polite, above all.
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