We’ve both been busy with our personal lives and haven’t been able to meet.
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I have a papa (a male supporter) I’ll finally be seeing again after several months.
He’s a wonderful person whom I really like,
so I want him to enjoy the time we spend together.
Is there anything you’d be happy to hear or have done for you by someone you’re seeing again after several months?
Due to time constraints, we’re only planning to go out for dinner—dinner only (no intimacy).
I’d really appreciate hearing your ideas.
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People may take the other answers differently, so I’ll just share this as one perspective.
It’s probably nice to be told that you’re wonderful and that he really likes you. But if he truly likes you, he’ll likely want you to make time for him, so I think it’s better to decide your next date when you meet.
Rather than telling him your schedule, ask about his. If you have plans that aren’t a high priority, reschedule them and make yourself available for that papa (a male supporter).
Don’t mention that you adjusted your other plans or went out of your way. It’s better to make it seem as though you just happened to be free.
If he dodges the question after that, he may not like you as much as you think, and it’ll probably be difficult to turn things around.
When schedules don’t line up, it’s usually either because the relationship isn’t important enough for one of you to make the effort, or because the person simply isn’t good at managing their time.
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I agree with Paper Airplane, but if you’re going into this thinking, “He’s totally into me~♡,” I’m afraid I might shatter your dream, so I don’t quite know what to say.
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Don’t overthink it.
From his perspective, meeting for dinner only after several months could simply be a way to see whether there’s any reason to meet again.
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I think you should tell him how you feel:
“He’s a wonderful person, and I really like him, so I want him to enjoy the time we spend together.”
Being straightforward is best.
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