As men get older, I feel like whether they’re attractive or not comes down to their financial power.
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But for women, as long as they still look beautiful, life is fairly easy no matter how old they are, right?
In that sense, I feel like men actually have an advantage because they can improve their situation through hard work. What do you think?
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Even if you have financial means, it doesn’t matter if you don’t have your health.
I remember a patient in that private room sadly saying, “You can’t buy health with money…”
By the way, you seem to think men have the advantage—what exactly would you like to know?
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I agree that having a certain level of financial means is important. But I don’t think that alone makes someone popular.
If financial means are their only appealing quality, then the people who approach them are also only interested in their money—it goes both ways. Ultimately, I think personality matters on top of that.
I’m not sure what makes men more advantaged, but if women can lead a reasonably good life simply because they’re beautiful, then they’re lucky, right? Of course, maintaining one’s looks takes a fair amount of effort, and even beautiful people can have questionable personalities.
So I guess everything matters.
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You might feel happy basking in the belief that you’re popular.
But a very perceptive person once said:
“They may remember my card, my wallet, and what I drank, but they don’t really see me as a person.”
— Akari
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What do wealthy women do for fun, I wonder?
Apparently, young sex workers are the main customers at hosts’ clubs these days.
Travel? Fine dining? Sports?
My own performance has been getting less reliable too, so maybe I’ll have to switch to those kinds of things. Perhaps it’s all the same in the end.
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You again? (lol)
Maybe I am, and maybe I’m not.
The point is, whether you’re a man or a woman, people are drawn to you if you have money. Just being beautiful or handsome isn’t enough to get anyone interested, you know? (lol)
Oh, wait!
I’m handsome but broke, and you’re beautiful but broke too. So what are we going to do now...?
Ah!
Want to get together since we’re both broke? I think we could have a pretty good relationship. (lol)
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It probably depends on what you consider “financial means” and how popular someone has to be to count as “attractive,” but once a man gets older, I don’t think money alone will make him popular. That said, I do think it’s hard to be popular without money.
Also, some people simply won’t make money no matter how hard they try, so I don’t think it all comes down to effort. If financial security were something you could gain through effort alone, I imagine most women wouldn’t do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) in the first place.
I don’t think either side is inherently advantaged or disadvantaged. But if you compare men who can make as many offers as they want if they have the financial means with women who, no matter how attractive they are, have to keep waiting passively for offers, then men probably do have an advantage when it comes to the chances of meeting a good partner.
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Having money only gets you as far as playing around with women.
Even if you seem popular, it’s really your money that’s attracting people.
I don’t want to become the kind of deluded, pathetic man who mistakes that for genuine appeal.
And for women, staying beautiful without making any effort can’t be easy either.
In other words, I don’t think either men or women necessarily have the advantage.
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It’s basically a case of “six of one, half a dozen of the other”—or “the pot calling the kettle black,” or even “two peas in a pod.” You could also call it “Kinoko no Yama” versus “Takenoko no Sato,” or say it’s like Sota Fukushi and Taishi Nakagawa, or Ruriko Kojima and Sayaka Yamamoto. Any of those comparisons might work.
Financial resources are certainly a plus for a man. They might buy you intimacy, but they can’t buy a person’s feelings, can they? Of course, it partly comes down to how you spend your money, but I don’t think things will go anywhere unless she’s genuinely attracted to you at the core. The same goes for women. Being attractive gives you an advantage, but if you’re getting older and relying on nothing but your looks—or if you’re not very bright—that can be a problem...
I feel that the older we get, the more important our character becomes.
At a dating club, a man with financial means can make offers to as many women as he wants, while women have no choice but to wait. So having money may give men an advantage. But that’s all it is—it’s not really about age.
I’m getting bored, so let’s get back to the topic. I think “Ashita no Joe” and “a sea lion show” sound remarkably similar. Only people from the Showa era will get that one, though.
Would “only God knows” and “crab miso soup” work regardless of age? Actually, once I start doing this, it never ends. (lol)
Thank you as always. I look forward to continuing our exchange.
Taro
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