In papa-katsu, is there really no demand for anyone other than cute, feminine girls?
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I’m transgender (legally female), but I’m still a minor, short, and haven’t started hormone treatment yet, so aside from my usual clothes and hair length, I’m no different from an ordinary girl. Of course, I have no intention of telling a papa (a male supporter) to treat me as a boy or anything like that. If I dress in feminine clothes and give it a try, can someone who doesn’t usually live as a girl still do papa-katsu? Or is there such a huge difference compared with girls who are naturally feminine and work on themselves every day that no one would be interested in me…?
Also, are there any transgender people who do papa-katsu, papas who have met someone like that, or papas who like and are looking for girls like that?
Even if you’re legally female, you identify as male, right?
So are you attracted to men?
Or are you attracted to women, but simply want to have sex with men to satisfy your sexual urges?
If that’s the case, then fine—but I do wonder whether there’s really much demand for it.
If you don’t actually want to have sex with men but are forcing yourself because you want the allowance, I think you should stop, since no one will be happy that way.
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I don’t think there’s much demand for that.
I’ve met people like that before, but at least in their case, I don’t think they’d do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). They may be thinking of it like a job, but I imagine it would be incredibly stressful. It would be like me doing papa-katsu, so I honestly can’t imagine it.
That said, I do have a few people who cover my meals and golf expenses without giving me an allowance, and sometimes pay for my taxi or give me gifts. Of course, I also receive proper payment for the work I do.
I’m not sure what kind of answer this is, but I think you’d be better off avoiding a dating club. That’s because most arrangements there are based on an adult relationship (intimate).
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It sounds like the questioner identifies as FtM, but do you want to have an allowance-based relationship with men? Do you mean that you’re both FtM and gay?
I’m sure there are men who are looking for women other than the “cute and feminine” type. However, I think men who would want to get close to an FtM transgender person through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) are an extremely small minority.
Personally, I don’t think I could do it. It would feel empty to have someone reluctantly go along with something that is physically repulsive to them.
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> If someone dresses in a feminine way and gives it a try, can they do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) even if they don’t normally live as a woman?
I think it’s possible, though it probably also depends on whether they’re naturally attractive.
Men can tell when someone is beautiful, no matter what they do.
They might even receive offers with short hair, and if their hair isn’t short, they’re even more likely to get offers.
I don’t think it has much to do with whether they’ve made an effort to improve their appearance or not. It seems more like men make offers based on their natural potential.
There are quite a few women who aren’t transgender but are also attracted to women.
You could say they’re bisexual, I suppose.
Some women already have partners like that, while others feel that way but haven’t become close to another woman yet and would like to.
Since these women look and act like ordinary women, I think they could do papa-katsu without any problems.
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