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Oct 14, 2022 16:51
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A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I completely understand feeling less in the mood after eating.
But going to a hotel when you don’t know anything about the other person at all does seem more like a sex service.
Why not suggest meeting for tea at a café in or near the hotel first?
You could talk for a bit there, and then decide whether to go to the hotel. That way, you’ll get to know each other a little and both feel more comfortable.
Other
Mac, it’s not because my stomach sticks out—it’s because it’s harder to feel full, and I feel more desire when I’m hungry. So I actually prefer being intimate on an empty stomach too.
As Flag Maker suggested, it might also be good to simply go along with him. When the man is driving, sometimes I’ll have just a little to drink and get into a more suggestive mood.
In my case, it’s often broad daylight too, which makes it even more effective.
Marika
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
If that’s what she wants, then I don’t see a problem with going along with it.
Personally, I’d also like to have a monthly partner like that.
I usually avoid drinking with meals because I lose my ability to perform, and the medication becomes less effective.
Once, I went from a room to dinner with a woman I’d become close to, and we got completely wasted drinking together. It was a lot of fun.
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Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
Because her stomach sticks out after eating, right? That’s just a normal concern for women. I think it’s cute. I like girls like that ❤️
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Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
At that point, you might as well just go along with whatever she wants and make the date all about pleasing her.
Your response should be, “Yes, ma’am!”
I think it could create a nice mood.
I’m actually being pretty serious.
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Even so, if it’s your first time,
you should at least keep the first date to dinner or something and wait until the second meeting.
Doing it right when you meet is just too much.
If you need an allowance for an adult relationship (intimate), you’d honestly be better off going shopping together…
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m curious how you knew that, despite it being your first time meeting, she’s the type who goes out to eat after going to a room.
Would the club really tell you that much?
Was it through a letter date or another club?
It’s fairly common for the room to come first from the second meeting onward, but I’ve never experienced starting with a room on the very first meeting.
She’s probably a woman who’s used to this.
Even without setting the mood, if she’s reasonably attractive, things will naturally progress that way.
Just think of it as sex work.