Tips Oct 14, 2022 15:48

Can men at Universe Club cancel an offer multiple times??

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Is there any rule against doing it repeatedly?? Recently, the same person has canceled twice after we had worked out all the details, and I seem to remember that cancellations weren’t allowed in the past, so I wanted to ask.
👤 Asked by Guest 👩GenderFemale 🎂 20s 👑 Universe female member
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A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Personally, I think neither the men nor the women should be allowed to cancel. An unexpected work commitment or feeling unwell shouldn’t be grounds for cancellation—though rescheduling would be understandable. It may be a burden on the club, but I think they should handle rescheduling without issuing refunds. That’s what you’d expect from a concierge service, especially when they charge a far-from-cheap fee. If they aren’t willing to make that much effort, charging a cancellation fee is outrageous. For the record, I’ve never canceled.
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Cancellations due to unexpected circumstances are understandable, but people who give you a bunch of detailed instructions before you even meet are a hassle, and in my experience, they’ve rarely turned out to be very good. So I think it’s perfectly fine to turn them down. That’s just based on my limited experience, though, so feel free to disregard it. —Marika
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Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
I’ve had to cancel a few times due to a fever, unexpected work commitments, or a bereavement. Even when I canceled on the same woman twice in a row, the club never warned me.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
You can think of it as avoiding a pointless meeting.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
The rules haven’t changed—cancellations aren’t allowed. That said, men are generally given some leeway since unexpected work situations do come up. It’s pretty unfair that women can be forcibly banned for canceling at the last minute, while men get this kind of treatment. However, when a man cancels every time, the staff eventually realize it’s not really due to work. They’ll warn him, and I think they could ultimately force him to leave as well. Personally, I think they should handle it like travel agencies do: charge a 100% cancellation fee on the day, 90% one day beforehand, and 50% from two days to a week before—and give the woman half of the cancellation fee. I’ve actually suggested this several times, but apparently they still can’t go that far.
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