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Oct 9, 2022 08:47
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I have a question: Would it be possible for the staff to contact a few of the men who made me offers several years ago?
They were wonderful people, so if there’s a chance I could meet them again, I’d like to try.
Also, is there a chance that even a plain-looking working woman could receive offers?
Of course, I’ll do my best to look as cute as possible!
Lately, people around me have been calling me “ordinary” and “plain,” and it’s really hurt my feelings. Maybe I’m not interesting enough…?
Sorry for the long post. Thank you in advance.
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Age: Private
👨 Male
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> Would it be possible to have the staff contact some of the men who made offers to me several years ago?
If I had been the one who interviewed you, I probably would have agreed to help. However, I’ve never actually received a request like that from a woman in the first place.
Most of the requests came from men. And when I asked the women, almost 100% of them said, “Please decline.”
I think the reason is that men are more likely to have lingering feelings, while women tend not to look back once they end things.
If you still had feelings but ended things with him, he probably had a solid reason for deciding to break up, so I don’t think contacting him would be easy.
More importantly, why did you delete his contact information in the first place? That may have been the real mistake.
If you had both kept each other’s contact information, I get the feeling that men often reach out on their own.
And if you blocked him on impulse when you were younger, you could simply unblock him and contact him, so that part is a little puzzling too.
That said, there may be staff members like me who would be willing to contact him if asked. So there’s no harm in asking after you re-register.
(It would probably be better to ask after re-registering rather than during the registration process.)
> Is it possible for an unassuming working woman to receive offers?
It’s not really about whether you look plain or glamorous. Offers can pour in for women who give off a mysterious aura that makes men want to ask them out.
You may simply see yourself as plain.
So whether you receive offers has little to do with whether you consider yourself unassuming.
Also, since you’re re-registering, I think you can probably predict how many offers you’ll receive this time based on how many you got when you registered before.
> Lately, people around me have been calling me “ordinary” and “plain,” and it’s really hurt me.
A while back, a lot of women used to say things like, “I’m the mass-produced type.” Maybe they don’t say that as much anymore.
I think they used “ordinary” to mean “mass-produced.”
But “mass-produced” brings the Zaku mobile suits to mind. Although Zakus were originally considered disposable grunts, they’re actually well-balanced machines, and they’ve come to be seen as excellent units if piloted well.
So when I heard “mass-produced type,” I thought, “Isn’t that actually a pretty good thing?”
> I’ll make myself as cute as possible!
If you take the wrong approach, people may end up wondering, “Why did she go in that direction?”
Rather than forcing yourself to look cute, I think it would be better to choose a style that brings out the qualities you believe are good about yourself.
The important thing is figuring out what kind of look suits you.
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It may be difficult to have the staff contact him for you… I haven’t confirmed this, so I don’t want to say anything inaccurate.
As for whether an ordinary working woman can receive offers, I think it should be fine since men have all kinds of preferences. Many of the women at the club may be glamorous, but I feel that my clothes, appearance, and personality are all pretty low-key. I’m not particularly striking, but there have still been men who made offers to me.
So while looks are important, personality matters too if you want the arrangement to continue. I hope you can become someone he enjoys spending time with.
Also, not everyone likes flashy women, so I think it’s important to dress stylishly in a way that suits you.
Other
Please re-register first.
Also, since we don’t know your age, we can’t tell whether anyone will contact you or not. It seems that even some people in their 20s don’t receive any offers, so if you have an unusual hobby or something else that makes you stand out from others, you might receive an offer.
> Would it be possible to have the staff contact a few of the people who made me offers several years ago? They were wonderful people, so I’d like to try if there’s a chance I could meet them again.
Try what? That sounds scary.
As far as I know, the staff may not be able to contact them for you. It might be different if you’re a man, though…
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
The shrimp at Mimiu look delicious.
You say that, but Pota, you’re a gorgeous, busty woman yourself.
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I’m Pota-shiumu, a female member.
As for the first question, I’m not staff, so I don’t know—sorry, no idea.
As for when Garizō and the others will be able to get “I don’t know” from Hanakappa whenever they want it, the future is still impossible to predict.
Regarding the second question, even an ordinary working woman can still receive offers.
I’m probably the “clothes make the person” type. I have a face and a nose, but not much glamour. Still, I did receive offers, and apparently I happened to fit some papas’ preferences? Though, of course, most people won’t be interested in me either.
Reality is tough, huh?
Still, while facial features are largely determined by genetics—the arrangement and individual parts—your overall vibe is also influenced by your personality, which tends to show through.
The other day, I was brutally attacking some shrimp at Mimiu, and when I watched the video afterward, I saw myself grinning like crazy and cracked up.
If you try to become cuter or a better person, I think your whole vibe will naturally change through those little things that shine through.
So don’t worry about being plain or ordinary—show your individuality and enjoy life to the fullest! Haha.
That’s just my personal theory, though.
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Whether it’s possible or not will depend on the staff member.
That said, it sounds like you blocked him on LINE and cut off contact when you left the club.
Given that, wanting to resume the relationship now simply because you need money is rather self-serving.
This may sound harsh, but if I were in that man’s position, I don’t think I’d accept even if the staff contacted me.