Don’t adult allowances tend to be higher for Type C than D, B than C, and A than B?

If you’re not open to an adult relationship (intimate), I’d say your chances are probably pretty low. Since you’re a woman, you can’t view the profiles, right? The women who receive offers at A may indeed be exceptionally beautiful, but not everyone at A is a beauty. I’m perfectly satisfied with C, so I only make offers to women in C.

I don’t think it matters much. What matters more is the relationship type when you’re trying to decide which person to date.

> Do you change the allowance depending on the dating type? I haven’t heard of many men who change the allowance based on the dating type. However, quite a few men do adjust the allowance based on how attractive the woman is. It’s only natural when you consider that there’s competition. If you want to date a woman but can’t because your allowance offer is too low, then you may as well wonder what the point of making the offer was in the first place. If you genuinely want to date her, you should use your “scouter” to figure out roughly how much allowance a woman like her is receiving. (*A scouter is the glasses-like device from Dragon Ball that displays an opponent’s power level. Haha.*) If you offer a fixed amount without even knowing how attractive the woman is, you’re more likely to miss out on dating her—and it’s also disrespectful to the woman. The allowance is also a reflection of how highly a man values a woman. Saying, “I don’t rate you very highly, but please date me anyway” isn’t going to work. The norm in this world is to say, “I value you this highly. That’s why we should date.” Once you understand that basic principle, a woman with dating type A whom you’d actually want to make an offer to would probably be exceptionally beautiful—someone truly remarkable and difficult to come across. Even though there are other women with dating type A, the fact that you made an offer to her means she must have been especially your type. In that case, she’s probably such a desirable woman that other men would be willing to offer her an allowance even for dinner only (no intimacy). Strategically speaking, that means you’re more likely to succeed if you offer more than the other men—or at least match their allowances. The other men making offers will act on the same reasoning, so the allowances will naturally keep rising. When you look at it that way, you can see that allowances don’t increase because of the dating type itself. Rather, when more men want to date a particular woman, her allowance naturally rises because of the amounts they offer. > Or are papas who can afford to offer a high allowance choosing types A and B from the start? I think that happens too. There are men who think, “Other guys might not be able to do it, but I can.” Those men have the financial leeway to offer an allowance high enough to satisfy the woman.

I’m a female member, Potassium. Um, well… I’m probably an exception, but I switch between Types A through C depending on the situation. I haven’t quit the club yet because I still find it kind of interesting—and it also lets me verify things when answering questions—but I’ll choose Type A when I want fewer offers and Type C when I want more. Of course, when I choose Type C, I’m open to an adult relationship from the very first day. I don’t misrepresent my type; I simply adjust it to fit my work-life balance. I think a certain number of women change their type this way, so the allowance amount and relationship type aren’t necessarily connected in the way the questioner assumes. That’s just my personal opinion, though.

The closer a woman is to Type A, the more confident she tends to be that she can receive an allowance for dinner only (no intimacy). That also means the bar for entering an adult relationship (intimate) is higher, so if allowance is the only thing you have to offer, your only option is to compete by raising it. However, once the allowance goes beyond a certain point, it stops being much of an advantage. I feel that the mindset of Type A/B women is basically, “Even if he offers me 10, I still don’t want to do it with a man I dislike.” For what it’s worth, I don’t currently change the allowance based on the dating type. I mainly make offers to women from Types A to C, but Type B is where I focus most of my efforts.

Just as with class, I don’t change the allowance based on the type of arrangement or appearance. Whether I increase the allowance depends on how special she makes me feel. I assume “allowance for Type A” means the allowance for a meal, but women I meet through apps who aren’t particularly cute sometimes ask for 20,000 yen for dinner. On the other hand, a beautiful woman introduced to me through a salon may say she doesn’t need an allowance because she wants to stick to dinner only for a while and we’re not in that kind of relationship yet. So, I don’t think appearance or the type of arrangement has anything to do with the allowance.