Is it possible for female members to see how many times their own profile has been viewed?

Lately, with people being able to add messages to “That’s nice” and see how many favorites they’ve received, it’s started to feel more like an app than a dating club. The women’s stance seems to be changing too—whereas they used to simply wait for offers, things are different now. I’m not sure it’s a positive trend, but I can understand why Universe might want to create something like a hybrid between an app and a dating club. If you prefer to take the initiative and move things along yourself, an app is probably a better fit. Marika

I’m Potassium, a female member. I agreed with this so intensely—it reminded me of my past self, haha. If you can gather data, figure out what you’re doing wrong, and determine how to get results, then if those results lead to offers, I think that would ultimately benefit the club too. But first of all, don’t you perhaps have some confidence in your appearance or something similar, and feel disappointed that it isn’t reflected in the number of favorites you receive? Maybe it’s partly that you can’t fully accept reality as it is. To be blunt, this is different from Twitter, TikTok, or Instagram, where you can gather your own data, identify trends, and improve until you somehow gain more followers. (Though those platforms are pretty saturated these days, so it’s not that easy anymore either.) This isn’t a sweet, easy world where you’ll succeed just by learning a few tricks. This may sound harsh, but it’s appearance-driven. It comes down to whether your face or figure is in demand. Since I started answering questions, I’ve seen quite a few people who receive so many offers and favorites that they can’t even keep up with them. I don’t know whether it’s true, and I don’t really want to believe it, but there are definitely people like that. The club staff and their abilities may play a very small part, but photos don’t lie. And the staff’s comments are, in the truest sense, objective impressions based on seeing you as a first-time viewer. Since there’s a company—the club—in between, if they’re thinking about profits, it wouldn’t make financial sense to spend a lot of time on someone who seems unlikely to receive any offers. Even creating a system like that or changing its settings would be a lot of work. If a large number of female members started complaining that “the photos are bad,” I imagine it would be hell for the staff... Even if you feel that everything is your own fault and want more systems because you want to change yourself, not everyone would have the same motivation to use them. In the end, it would probably just create more work. So while analysis is certainly important, rather than immediately asking for the changes you want, I think you should first make the most of the field you have now, gather as much data as possible, and think things through. And as you learn more about reality, you should also consider whether this club is actually a good fit for you in the first place. Rather than asking other people to improve things, you need to start by improving whatever you can on your own. Otherwise, you probably won’t get results. Ah, I may have sounded a little presumptuous, but to be honest, I don’t receive many offers either, and I started with even fewer favorites than you, haha. You’ve only been here for four days, so you still have plenty of time ahead of you. It would be better to look at things over a somewhat longer period! That’s just my personal opinion, though!

> Do the staff know the information above? They can, if they make an effort to find out. There are probably women who dance in videos or have been made to do various things, but those women tend to rank among the profiles with the most views. > By the way, I registered four days ago, but I’ve only received two favorites so far... *tears* I think this is the real issue here. To tell you a shocking fact: even if a woman takes terrible photos and doesn’t have any videos, a beautiful woman will still receive offers one after another. So why do we bother using expensive equipment and trying to take the best photos possible? Because women like that are very rare, and most people aren’t like that. > My profile is being clicked on, but I’m not receiving any offers. When you’re not getting offers, it’s natural to start wondering about all the possible reasons. But there’s no point dwelling on that. (We don’t lie in the comments, so even if something in the comments is the reason you didn’t receive an offer, it was only written because that’s how the staff felt during your interview.) For now, I think you should focus on something else. First, you should send those two people a message saying “You seem lovely,” along with a thoughtful note. And if you receive more favorites in the future, you should send them the same kind of message. Also, I think it would be a good idea to write various things in the comment section where you can add your own comments.

With as many as 7,500 female members, I don’t think they focus on individual women. They probably do want offers to come in for the women they personally interviewed and registered, but in those cases, I imagine they approach individual male members directly. Incidentally, even smaller dating clubs with only a few dozen or a few hundred members don’t seem to handle things individually, so I understand that this is simply how dating clubs operate. As for requests, please contact the branch office.

Male members can see how many women have viewed the profiles they created themselves. Honestly, though, I don’t see much point in knowing that information personally… So, technically, I imagine it’s possible. Why not ask your branch? The number of favorites is one possible indicator, but since you don’t know how many offers you’re getting relative to the number of favorites, it’s not very meaningful information. By the way, I think the club staff would rather help more women receive offers than have all the attention concentrated on a few particularly popular women.

I understand that you may feel anxious after joining, but I imagine the staff have plenty of other work to deal with as well. This may sound harsh, but whether your profile gets a lot of views or not, if you haven’t received any offers, the fact remains that no one has chosen you. So rather than relying on others, I think it’s better to consider for yourself what might be holding you back and take action. If I weren’t receiving any offers, I would make full use of every feature available to me. If that still didn’t work, I’d change my mindset and accept that this platform simply wasn’t the right fit for me. You’ve only recently joined, so try not to worry too much.

It’s a good suggestion, although constantly riding those emotional highs and lows could take a toll mentally. Still, if my profile wasn’t even being viewed, it would help me decide to quit papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so I think it’s a great idea.