I tell the women I date that I’m married, but unlike you, they say that being married and an older man makes me feel safe because they know I’m not going to disappear after getting what I want or become genuinely serious.
Well, that’s what they said when they were around twenty. We don’t talk about that at all anymore.
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With a single papa, it also seems emotionally difficult if he ends up developing serious romantic feelings.
Even with a married papa, it’s important to choose carefully. I recommend finding one who knows how to handle things discreetly, is comfortable with a transactional relationship, can read the atmosphere, and takes proper precautions.
Get accurate information and take the proper precautions. Legally speaking, an affair isn’t a crime—it’s a civil matter. There is a risk that his wife could sue you and demand compensation.
For the woman, the safest approach is to stick to, “I didn’t know the papa was married.”
So I think it’s best not to pry into a married papa’s private life, and to look for someone who is considerate enough not to involve you too deeply.
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I think it would be a good idea to state in your profile that you only want dinner-only arrangements with married men, or that you’re only interested in single men.
If someone lies about being single and you enter into a relationship with him, I believe only the man would be liable for compensation. You may want to double-check that.
—Ryo
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