I’m supposed to meet my papa (a male supporter) today, but there’s a typhoon, and honestly, I don’t want to go.
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For reference, universities in Nagoya have been closed today because of it.
But my papa is very eager to meet.
The typhoon is expected to hit the Chugoku region tonight, so it won’t directly hit Nagoya. Would you cancel if you were me?
The papa who couldn’t stay over yesterday because something urgent came up drove through the pouring rain to come see me today.
It made me really happy.
Unless the trains are actually stopped, the roads are closed, or there’s an official severe-weather warning, I think a papa will naturally take it as, “She must not really like me.”
Marika
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For a first date, I wouldn’t reschedule just because of something like a typhoon.
So, I had a lovely date in Tokyo this afternoon.
I’m on the bullet train back to Aichi now.
But if you were meeting in Nagoya today, the trains are stopped, so maybe you could ask for a generous amount to cover the taxi fare?
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For something like this, I wouldn’t be the one to suggest canceling. I’d ask what she wants, and if she prefers to cancel, I’d accept that.
Honestly, if you don’t want to go, I think it’s fine to just say so.
By the way, do you have classes even on public holidays these days?
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It depends on how severe the typhoon is, but if I’m able to go, I wouldn’t cancel. I’d be happy if my papa (a male supporter) still wanted to meet, because I want to see him too.
If you’re worried about the typhoon, why not tell him you’re feeling uneasy about going out and discuss it with him?
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You didn’t want to meet regardless of the typhoon, did you? You felt that way from the start… That papa—sorry, I meant “baba”… huh? I guess it’s because that’s how little you think of your papa that even typos slip out…
You can meet for today’s allowance yesterday or tomorrow, or even tonight.
Because the typhoon meant the kids were home, I asked my daughter, “Want to go out for lunch?” She shot me down with, “As if I could go out dressed like this. Obviously.” My son, who had just woken up, said, “If I go with Dad, he’ll buy me anything,” so we ended up going to the convenience store together to get something for my daughter too.
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I don’t think you need to force yourself to go, but if your papa is eager to meet, he might be happy if you do.
When I was a student, I remember having a lot of fun staying cooped up in a hotel during a typhoon.
That said, the opposite happened to me—I was the one who got canceled on by my papa, haha. I understood that it couldn’t be helped because of the typhoon, but it still felt lonely…
So I guess I’m in the “go meet him” camp after all!
Personally, I think the smoothest approach is for the man to say, “It’s a typhoon—what do you think we should do?” and leave the decision up to the woman.
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■Preface
While I was thinking about the typhoon, I suddenly remembered that I had a girl scheduled for an adult date early tomorrow afternoon. Since she’s very flexible, I contacted her at the last minute and had her change it to tonight. Much appreciated, much appreciated.
I wonder if the H〇lton has any rooms available.
I’ll answer.
To be honest, it depends on the girl I’m supposed to meet.
If she’s one of my favorites and I want to play the gentleman, I’ll count it as an adult date even if we don’t meet. I’ll send her allowance via PayPay.
If she’s a girl I’m not especially fond of but we’ve continued seeing each other, I leave it up to her whether we meet or not. If she says she doesn’t want to meet, I won’t give her the allowance for the adult relationship.
I’m not an egalitarian. I’ll show favoritism toward girls who make an effort, and I vary the amount of allowance I give them.
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