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Sep 17, 2022 14:57
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I feel like there are very few men who properly understand their age and genuinely support you in life.
It feels like they’re all old guys who haven’t come to terms with their own age…
And yet they still have exchanges like this:
Old guy: Huh? Twen—…?
Twenty??! (in a loud voice)
Me: You mean my age? I’m 25.
Old guy: Twenty-five, huh… ↓↓ lolol
They really have the nerve to talk to me like that.
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Other
Is paternal instinct basically the male version of maternal instinct?
I tried to think of what kind of woman would bring out a man’s paternal instincts, but I couldn’t really come up with an answer. Then again, I’ve never felt maternal instinct in the first place, haha.
As for age, from that person’s perspective, that moment is the youngest they’ll ever be for the rest of their life, so it can’t really be helped. Looking at it the other way, a 25-year-old who still writes things like “old dude” or “that type of person” might be the one who doesn’t understand their own age.
In the end, since this is a dating club, I think many men are looking for something closer to dating or romance.
👨 Male
Universe member
You may be right, but in my case, I see the money, dating, and an adult relationship (intimate) as a package, and I believe I’m supporting her sincerely.
It’s the same idea as what I mentioned in response to an earlier question: I tell her the amount upfront when we start seeing each other, and let her decide whether she wants to proceed.
That’s because I see it as a relationship within the limited framework of a dating club.
Even within those limitations, I want to support the woman I’m seeing in whatever ways I can—not just financially.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Sexual desire and paternal feelings can coexist, so they may not be common, but I’d say there’s probably about one person in a hundred like that. There are even several among the people answering here.
Personally, I’m more likely to think, “Is this guy okay?” about a papa who sees women two or three decades younger than him as “pure women” or “pure members of the opposite sex” and gives them huge amounts of money.
What would you think if a PJ’s biological father had a serious crush on a girl the same age as—or younger than—the PJ? Wouldn’t you feel sick?
Paternal feelings may be something that only arise when someone has a great deal of financial leeway, so I’d love to have Saito-san♪ make another appearance and share his opinion.
I sometimes meet women where, although I’m giving them 100, it feels to me like only 1. The girls in six-month arrangements give me a similar feeling.
It’s close to the feeling of giving your daughter pocket money, so even if they run away, I don’t really mind.
One girl actually did run away, but I still worry about her. If she suddenly came back, I might welcome her with a hug like a daughter returning home after running away—and then give her a large amount of money again, only for her to run away again. It could turn into an endless loop, lol.
Incidentally, there are also plenty of girls I clearly recognize as taking the money and sleeping with me. In fact, that’s most of them.
Things don’t last long with those girls. If they don’t stimulate my paternal feelings, then a large amount of money feels like a large amount of money, after all.
In short, no matter how miraculously cute a girl is, unless she brings out my paternal feelings, I won’t give her a large amount of money or continue seeing her.
What I’d really like to understand is the mindset of PJs who have their maternal instincts stirred by old men.
There are women like that occasionally, right? They look like some kind of rare creature to me, but I suppose it’s ultimately a feeling only the person herself can understand.
I’ve met several women who saw an old man ejaculate and then hugged him, saying, “That’s so cute♡” Is that different from maternal instinct? I honestly can’t make sense of that either.
There are plenty of people who worship the man who assassinated Abe as a god, and apparently a fair number of women say they like Hezumaruyū, too. Humans really are strange creatures.
P.S.
There are fathers who sexually abuse their own daughters, right? When I think that I might be similar to them in some way, I break out in a cold sweat.
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Female member Potassium here.
This may sound like I’m missing the point, but if he truly wanted to support her, I think he’d keep giving her money without even meeting her. There’d be no need to take time out of that young woman’s schedule just to go on dinner dates with her, lol.
Also, if he’s seeing multiple women, he’s satisfying his sexual desires with the others, so it’s really just a matter of where the emphasis is placed.
I’ve probably shattered your dream. Sorry—this is just my personal opinion.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, the guy who got absolutely roasted over the “papa-katsu ends at 23” theory—and was recently torn apart again.
So at your age, if you filter by age requirements, you won’t even show up in the listings…
But lately, watching my daughter grow into a young woman, I’ve been reminded just how powerful clubs and money are. Girls her age would never give me the time of day, and neither would any other women I don’t already know—apart from my daughter and women from the club.
I have all the women who bravely joined those clubs to thank for that.