Since you’ve already sent your thanks, I’m not sure you’ll even see this. And if your only goal is to get accepted by the club, then please feel free to ignore it.
If getting into the club is your only goal right now, I think you should also consider what comes afterward. You probably know about papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but I personally feel that it tends to become harder to earn money as you get older.
You may be thinking about becoming someone’s ongoing mistress, but you never know what might happen to the man you’re seeing. And if you feel that you’re empty inside, maintaining that kind of relationship would be even more difficult.
By the way, you may possibly be behind average academically, but you’re not empty inside. After all, you’re already thinking about changing yourself on the inside.
So first of all, please don’t put yourself down just because you feel you’re lacking academically. It doesn’t matter whether you’ve stopped attending school or anything else. Even if you can’t read kanji, you can work on learning them little by little in your daily life.
Being good or bad at studying involves talent, but if you can make an effort despite not being academically gifted, that’s a talent too. You still have plenty of time to discover what your own talents are, so I think you should take your time and find them throughout your life.
To discover those talents, I personally think it’s good to interact with people, get scolded sometimes, and learn various things about society.
However, if you spend the rest of your life relying only on papa-katsu, it will be difficult to gain the sense of accomplishment that comes from achieving something on your own. When you can no longer do papa-katsu, you may end up at a loss for what to do.
In a sense, papa-katsu is entertainment. It’s different from working, whether in the nightlife industry or in a regular daytime job.
If you truly want to move forward in life with confidence in your inner self, I think you should work properly rather than relying only on papa-katsu. Joining a dating club could be a starting point, a way to improve yourself internally, and an investment in your future. If you approach it that way, your future may look very different.
I wish you the best of luck!
That’s just my personal opinion, though.
I’m voting for Tsubaki!
That’s a great answer.
Whatever it is, work hard and give it your all.
If you do, your appearance will shine even more, and you’ll become richer on the inside as well.
There have even been people who became prime minister after graduating from middle school, so it all comes down to your mindset.
For now, I’d recommend doing work that society needs but that other people don’t want to do.
Give it everything you’ve got, without worrying about appearances.
After a few years, I’m sure you’ll have grown into a lovely young woman who’s completely different from who you are now.
I’m not sure why you were rejected in the past, but unless you canceled your interview at the last minute, I believe you should be able to interview again.
As for women who seem to lack substance, they may not be received particularly well—not only at an escort club, but in the workplace in general. Still, unless someone is extremely lacking in common sense or outright rude, you’ll probably be fine.
If you’ve been able to keep working on your appearance over the past year, I think you can probably continue making the same kind of effort to improve yourself on the inside as well!
Whether you’re hoping to register with Universe Club or another club, you could explain your situation along the lines of: “I’m not very good at academics due to personal circumstances, but I’m working hard to overcome that weakness, and I’m looking for someone who will support me.” That kind of explanation might work well.
> I think my appearance is average and should meet the standard.
If you meet the standard, I don’t think you would be rejected by Universe.
Even if you’re not good with kanji or struggle with studying, I don’t think that alone would cause you to fail, so you should be able to register.
That said, whether a man likes you after going on a date with you may depend on qualities that are important in a different sense from academic ability.
I’m not really sure whether you would be accepted by dating clubs other than Universe.
If their interview standards are equivalent to Universe’s, I think you might be rejected. But if the club is more lenient than Universe, I think you would be accepted.
> Even if I were to get a regular job?
When it comes to regular employment, I think your personality and abilities would matter more than your appearance. However, there are many different kinds of jobs, so I don’t think you’d be unable to find work.
