Tips Sep 12, 2022 21:25

Should I hide the fact that I have a boyfriend?

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For example, when meeting a papa (a male supporter) for the first time, or if I start dating someone after being with my papa for about two years...
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This is Unno from the staff. I think it’s often better to be upfront from the start, as it can help prevent problems later on! That said, some men may prefer to be told, while others may not, so it’s probably best to decide based on your relationship with him and what kind of person he is.
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If you’re good at lying and can keep it hidden, it’s probably better not to say anything. But the worst outcome is getting caught after lying and trying to cover it up. So if you’re not good at lying, I think it’s better to be honest. You might end up breaking up, but if you’ve found a boyfriend, I think that’s okay.
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I’m Ryo, a female respondent. Some people don’t mind hearing that you have a boyfriend, while others would rather not know. Some are fine with knowing you have other papas, while others don’t want to hear it because they want to believe they’re the only one. Everyone’s different, so it’s best to judge for yourself before bringing it up. If you can’t read the situation, I’d recommend not saying anything. Please be careful.
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I actually prefer girls who already have boyfriends. Since I’m choosing cute girls, it would be way too unnatural for them not to have one. I also enjoy listening to them gush about their boyfriends. And of course, in the end, I want to win lol.
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It depends on the papa (male supporter). Some men think girls who date them while having a boyfriend are the worst and refuse to get involved with them, while others seem to find having a boyfriend even more exciting (though I haven’t met one of those yet). It’s fine to tell him if you can figure out which type he is, but if you can’t, it’s safer not to say anything.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’ve never met a woman who told me about it right from our first meeting. The women I’ve continued seeing do sometimes tell me when they get a boyfriend. Well, I think whether or not you should hide it depends on the person.
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マックさん
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
He’ll be delighted if you say something like, “I have a boyfriend now, but I still prefer being intimate with my papa. I might not be able to leave you—what should I do?” Just learn how to play your papa well. Keep him wrapped around your finger, and the money will follow.
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だて◎ゆめ
👨 Male Universe member
I think it’s better to talk to him. If it had been at the beginning, it wouldn’t have been a problem at all, and by now we’ve already agreed that we’ll part ways if I get a boyfriend.
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