I’m Working ○, enjoying a solo lunch with a beer after finishing a night shift.
I’ve listed my profession as being in the medical field on my profile.
Inspired by the generosity of the respondents here, I signed up as a Black member the other day.
I’ve sent some offers too, but I don’t have much money, so I can’t really follow their example...
For the women I’ve sent offers to—most of whom are Type B—should I tell them upfront at the first meeting how much allowance I’m able to offer?
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For you, how about clubs like Felice or Seishin Corporation?
A lot of nurses can be intimidating, so receptionists and nursing assistants are easier to deal with.
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I agree with Early-san about the Kamihikoki-san situation as well.
As for the person asking the question, they seem rather lonely, so perhaps they should start by improving their relationships with the younger nurses at work or making an effort to find some friends of the same gender.
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I always tell them the allowance amount at the first meeting. It’s never made things awkward (although they may just be putting on an act).
Also, I don’t usually comment on other people’s answers, and this isn’t meant as criticism, but since I believe you’ve asked questions here before, I’ll mention this out of concern: the second method Paper Airplane suggests is more for advanced users, and I think it would be difficult unless you have about as much experience as Paper Airplane. I also suspect that fewer girls registered with clubs actually want that kind of arrangement.
By coincidence, someone I’m seeing told me several stories about having trouble with men like that. Maybe some clueless papas with neither the experience nor the skills simply took that method out of context and tried to look cool using it.
I hope you find a good arrangement!
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It really depends on what kind of relationship you’re looking for.
If you’re ultimately expecting an adult relationship (intimate) every time, I think it’s best to discuss the allowance early on. Money has tremendous influence.
If you want to enjoy dating a Type B woman—or anyone else—you don’t necessarily need to bring up the allowance. You can let things naturally progress to an adult relationship, or wait until the woman brings it up herself. Showing that you’re not in a rush is important too; some women actually feel uncomfortable when a man makes the power of money too obvious.
Also, it’s not as though you’ve had trouble meeting women in the medical field, right? That part does make me a little uneasy…
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I may not be quite as generous, so this might not be what you’re looking for, but…
I don’t think there’s any particular need to tell a woman the maximum allowance you can offer.
Once you’ve been seeing each other for a while, she’ll be able to get a sense of your limits for dating expenses from things like the level of restaurants and hotels you go to, the allowance you pay, and how often you meet.
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I’ve seen statistics showing that papas who avoid stating the allowance amount or want to pay afterward tend to offer five or less per pay-per-meeting arrangement.
PJ women know this too, so just be upfront and say, “For a two-hour dinner date and a two-hour adult relationship (intimate), I’d like an allowance of five per meeting.”
It’s best to look for someone who agrees to those terms. If you want to avoid wasting money on dinner, say you’ll do two hours of an adult relationship (intimate) for five per meeting instead—it’s a win-win. The woman gets a higher hourly rate, while you can keep the total cost down.
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I’m a female member, Potassium.
Since everyone is different, I think it makes things go more smoothly if you discuss the allowance upfront.
That said, as someone asked before, if you initially offer an amount that’s more than you can realistically afford, you may later have to reduce it, which could leave the woman disappointed. So I think it’s better to offer an amount you can comfortably manage when you meet in person or during a letter date.
I hope you find a great papa-katsu woman!
That’s just my personal opinion.
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