What counts as casual attire for a papa-katsu girl?
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I have a date with my papa tomorrow, and he messaged me, “I’m going in casual clothes, so you can dress casually too.”
When he says casual, would it be okay to wear a high school class T-shirt on top, basketball practice pants from back in high school on the bottom, and Hello Kitty sandals from Don Quijote?
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I think “Casual clothes are fine” is a bit of a trap—though “trap” may be putting it too strongly. He probably just says that so you won’t feel pressured.
You should still dress nicely.
Some people might worry that they don’t have any fashionable clothes, so I think he’s just trying to be considerate.
It could also mean that he doesn’t plan to wear a suit either, so you should wear something similarly casual.
So, just imagine what you’d wear on a date with your boyfriend. I think he means that kind of outfit is fine.
If you’d normally go on a date with your boyfriend wearing a high school class T-shirt on top, old basketball practice pants on the bottom, and Hello Kitty sandals from Don Quijote, then I suppose you could justify wearing that…
But I’d still prefer you to dress up at least a little.
Or maybe he means to wear something like that because you’re planning to go bowling or do some other physical activity on the date?
Though that feels a little different to me.
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No one looks clean and put-together in bumpy-soled Hello Kitty sandals and a worn-out club T-shirt. It makes your cuteness potential drop to practically zero and only makes you look more unattractive, so I’d avoid it.
Just go with a T-shirt, a long skirt, and something like mules on your feet.
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You’re asking because you don’t feel comfortable with it, right? I think you should trust that instinct.
Personally, if we were meeting in a hotel room, I wouldn’t mind if she showed up dressed like that. If it were someone I was comfortable with, I’d tease her and joke, “I thought you were some compensated-dating girl I’d arranged to meet through a dating site.” lol
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Oh! If that outfit feels casual to you, and you have the confidence to go dressed that way and feel it’s appropriate, then give it a try—and please let us know how it goes!!
To me, a casual outfit would be a dress with sneakers. I usually wear a dress with heels, so I’d consider a dress with a more relaxed fabric or silhouette to be casual. Of course, jeans might be casual too, but I don’t wear them.
You’re quite an interesting person, questioner!
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