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Which catches your eye more: long dark hair or short hair?

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I have long dark hair. Personally, I like wearing my long, curled dark hair with sleek heels because it gives me that unmistakable papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) look and puts me in the mood. But from a man’s perspective, wouldn’t it be better to dress a little more casually? Some people may feel self-conscious about attracting attention from those around them if the papa-katsu vibe is too obvious. My writing got a bit disorganized, so I’ll list my questions: * Which is better: short hair or long hair? * What kind of outfit is best? * Is casual better than showing up in an unmistakable papa-katsu outfit? I’m in my early thirties, so please don’t suggest miniskirts. Sorry for the long post.
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Fuu
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I like black hair and dresses. I’m not a fan of heels. Even if you’re around 30, if you have nice legs and can pull off a mini skirt, I don’t think you need to worry about it at all these days.
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☆Personally, I love dark, long, curled hair with fitted heels because it really gives me that papa-katsu vibe and puts me in the mood. But isn’t the image you’re describing more like a sex worker? It shouldn’t be about boosting your own mood—you need to make the man feel good. So, a darker hair color with well-groomed, softly styled, straight, medium-long hair would be best. Soft, feminine clothes like what you’d wear on a casual day out work well too. If you go for business casual, you won’t look out of place even in an upscale restaurant. I think that kind of look is safe and appealing to everyone.
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Hi everyone! I’d had long, straight, dark hair forever because my clothes were always on the modest, slightly lolita-style side. But about a month ago, when I was starting to feel depressed, I impulsively chopped it all off myself. I hurriedly booked a salon appointment to have it fixed, and now I have a straight wolf cut. Since I’ve always had long hair, I feel like it’s super cute! Bobs are trendy too, and if I wear slightly shorter heels, wouldn’t that tone down the professional look and make it just right? ( ˙꒳​˙ )???
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*Which do you prefer, short hair or long hair? → I tend to notice someone’s face first, so I like either as long as it suits her. *What kind of outfit do you prefer? *Would you rather she dressed casually than show up in the typical papa-katsu outfit? → I might prefer a more mature look rather than something overly casual.
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
*Which do you prefer, short hair or long hair? Either is fine. Most of my favorites have short hair, but some originally had long hair, so I really don’t mind either way. *What kind of outfit do you prefer? A neat, feminine dress. *Would you prefer something casual over the typical papa-katsu look? I don’t dislike the classic papa-katsu look—in fact, I prefer it to something casual.
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I prefer black hair. As for long or short, either is fine as long as it suits you. I’m more into casual styles, though there’s something appealing about seeing an office lady in a suit too… lol.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Apparently, my preferences aren’t very mainstream, but I’ll answer based on my personal tastes. I like long hair. (That seems pretty common.) I’m not a fan of curled hair. As for hair color, I prefer shades up to around level 7. I don’t like anything lighter than that. I prefer casual clothing. I’m not into outfits that look too much like papa-katsu. Sweatshirts, leggings, and denim are all fine with me. (That doesn’t seem to be very common.) I’m not a fan of miniskirts. (Opinions seem to be divided on that.) If it’s formalwear, I prefer a below-the-knee pencil skirt or pants.
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シアトル
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Either is fine as long as it’s dark hair. I prefer straight hair to curls, and I like a casual style.
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