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Aug 15, 2022 11:52
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Other
There are all kinds of male members here. Some are ordinary salaried employees, while many others are doctors, business owners, and so on.
For the former, ¥300,000 a month is about the same as a monthly salary, so they may feel it’s a lot. For the latter, however, ¥300,000 a month might even be considered pocket change.
Rather than simply saying, “I need ¥300,000 a month,” it may be easier for the man to support you if you explain, “I need ¥300,000 a month for [specific reason].”
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
If she has a cute face, a good figure, and no red flags in her profile, that’s the amount I’d offer.
It depends on your personality and pride, but you could modestly list 15 on your profile, get plenty of offers, and then aim for 30 as your personal goal.
Other
Since every papa (a male supporter) is different, it’s hard to say whether an amount is high or low.
Some people may think 100 is cheap, while others may consider even 10 expensive.
Rather than focusing too much on the allowance, pay attention to your hobbies and special skills.
Other
I’d say that’s a pretty standard range, though some papas may feel that ¥300,000 from one person is too expensive.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
It depends on how often you meet the man.
If you only meet once a month and ask for 30,000 yen, you may come across as expensive. But if you’re saying 30,000 yen without setting a limit on how often you’ll meet one man, that isn’t an outrageous request.
It also depends on how you feel about seeing multiple men, so there’s no one-size-fits-all answer.
Other
As papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) goes, it doesn’t sound bad.
Of course, it depends on the details. Judging from the way things are being discussed here, I guess it’s more efficient the fewer papas you have and the less often you meet them lol.
That said, when I hear “30,” I can’t help calculating what that amount would mean in terms of how much I’d have to earn through work lol.
Everyone’s perspective is different, but people who are good with money have a sharp sense of what’s appropriate and what represents good value, depending on the time and circumstances—regardless of whether something takes effort or is easy money.
Frugal people like saving and growing their money, so they naturally have strict standards lol. That can also be a steady source of strength lol.
When those values become misaligned or distorted, what you gain from the relationship can become inconsistent, and various things stop fitting together. That’s something I try to be careful about.
It’s rude to impose my values on someone else, and I find it unpleasant when someone imposes theirs on me.
For both me and the person asking the question, 30 is still 30, so if our values align, it carries the same weight.
I do hope to enjoy spending it with someone whose values match mine lol.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
The monthly support amount you’re asked about at the club assumes you may be seeing multiple people, not just one.
So even if you say ¥300,000, if you’re dating six people, that works out to ¥50,000 per person per month.
With that in mind, it’s not particularly high. However, since many men don’t think of it that way, I think a lower desired monthly amount is generally more appealing.
If this question is separate from the one asked by Universe Club, then some people may consider it high while others may think it’s low.
I think it depends on how much financial leeway the man has and how much of a premium the woman is perceived to have.
Other
If she’s your favorite, you probably won’t feel it’s expensive. It really depends on the person.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
In numbers: you could meet six times at 50,000 yen per meeting, ten times at 30,000 yen, three times at 100,000 yen, or thirty times at 10,000 yen. It can even be with the same person.
Other
I don’t think it’s particularly expensive, but some people may find it pricey.
Marika
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
If the person asking the question were my type, it would feel incredibly cheap to me.
If she weren’t my type, I’d find myself thinking about other things, like, “I’d probably need about four pay-per-meeting papas paying 50,000 yen each.”
That said, I don’t think it’s expensive.
If a young woman is giving something precious to an older man, I’d want her to earn at least around ¥300,000 a month, so I don’t consider it “high.”
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
No, I don’t think it’s particularly expensive.