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Aug 9, 2022 18:42
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All of them were offers involving papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) and intimate company.
When I asked why they were asking me, they said, “Because you’re attractive. You should be happy—it means you’re beautiful.”
Do you think I should be happy about it? I feel kind of sad because I wonder if they only see me for my body.
Some men also suddenly changed their attitude when I turned them down. (They yelled at me.)
You’re all so kind.
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Other
You seem approachable and kind, so I imagine you must be wonderful and charming!
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Men who approach women in nightlife districts are probably only after one thing: sex.
Well, if you put it that way, I suppose I’m after the same thing too. I started this because I’m deeply interested in different women’s bodies and how they respond. In other words, I’m a pervert.
It’s not simply a matter of having a hole to use, though… although maybe there isn’t really that much difference between us.
Men who yell when they’re turned down don’t expect to be rejected. I think you see it more often with the so-called confident types.
I don’t expect to be rejected either, so I do get annoyed when it happens. But I don’t get angry because I don’t want to make the time we’re spending together unpleasant.
That said, lately I haven’t been turned down for any reason other than a mismatch over the allowance, so I haven’t really had a reason to get upset.
👨 Male
Universe member
They’ve always said:
“If you’re not kind, you’re no man!”
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I think it’s normal to be approached around five or six times before you get home.
It simply means you’re that attractive.
It may be annoying, but please bear with it.
Other
You probably shouldn’t take it as a compliment.
I think they saw you as a woman who looked like she’d be easy to sleep with when they approached you.
Some of them may have genuinely thought you were their type, but I wouldn’t recommend meeting people that way.
The ones who got angry when you turned them down probably misunderstood and assumed, “This woman is definitely coming on to me.”
There are a lot of rude people out there.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Some respondents get grumpy just because their bedroom skills didn’t work, while others pay a lot but still fail to pull off NTR and then get moody and defensive. There are all kinds of people here.
At least, that’s what some older guy who proudly claims he used to drink with GaaSyy said.
Personally, though, I think everyone here is kind.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Oh—are you the person who got approached downtown for the first time in ages?
Or am I thinking of someone else?
Of course, men registered with our club are expelled if they do anything terrible, so they’ll treat you kindly.
Women aren’t valued for their bodies alone. Their sincerity and personality matter a lot too.
And papas aren’t just about the money, either. Without kindness, these arrangements won’t last long.